Episode 7
Grand Crosses and the Birth Chart of Doom?
Tristan and Kyle respond to questions from Jet and Karoliina regarding grand crosses and if difficult placements in a birth chart mean that the nativity is doomed. If you have a question you would like answered on the podcast, send us your question at astrologyhotlinepod@gmail.com.
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Kyle Pierce:Hello and welcome to astrology hotline to podcast where we
Kyle Pierce:answer your questions about astrology. My name is Tristan
Kyle Pierce:and hosting with me today is Kyle Pierce. Hello.
Tristan Paylor:How are you doing today cow?
Kyle Pierce:I'm doing quite well said my frappuccino. So if
Kyle Pierce:you want pretty good. How are you doing today?
Tristan Paylor:I'm pretty good. I haven't had a frappuccino so
Tristan Paylor:maybe not as good as you but no complaints. Otherwise it's kind
Tristan Paylor:of a dreary day here and
Tristan Paylor:my efforts to feed the local bird population before winter
Tristan Paylor:strikes are being thwarted by my backyard chipmunk.
Kyle Pierce:What
Tristan Paylor:is the chipmunk stealing the bird food? Oh yeah,
Tristan Paylor:I mean the chipmunk is getting all of the bird food. You guys
Tristan Paylor:are just jumping up there and stuffing her cheeks and leaving
Tristan Paylor:and then coming back for another. She's just horrid.
Tristan Paylor:She's holding it all she's transferring it from the bird
Tristan Paylor:feeder to wherever food stashes.
Kyle Pierce:Mean squirrels got a monk's gotta get get prepared
Kyle Pierce:for the winter to you know, they do I you know, I have maybe some
Kyle Pierce:extreme opinions about birds. So I might be on the chipmunk side
Kyle Pierce:in this case.
Tristan Paylor:Right, you're not dinosaurs. I mean, that's
Tristan Paylor:why I love them. They're evil. They're evil. Why did you know?
Tristan Paylor:Did you never go through the dinosaur phase as a kid? You
Tristan Paylor:don't think dinosaurs are cool?
Kyle Pierce:No, I think that dinosaurs are great. But they're
Kyle Pierce:they're extinct. And I'm glad that they're extinct. I don't
Kyle Pierce:want dinosaurs around. Well, I don't think anybody wants a pet
Kyle Pierce:dinosaur because that will probably eat your head. Birds
Kyle Pierce:would totally eat your head if they could, if they were big
Kyle Pierce:enough to bite it
Tristan Paylor:right. I've seen some pretty aggressive emus. So
Tristan Paylor:yeah, you might not be wrong on that.
Kyle Pierce:Reptile brains, flying rats. spreaders of
Kyle Pierce:disease
Tristan Paylor:oh my goodness, they're beautiful. They're
Tristan Paylor:spread disease but they're beautiful.
Kyle Pierce:I think we've had this conversation before where
Kyle Pierce:you know you check into because I don't seem to a lot of like
Kyle Pierce:ghost stories and stuff for Halloween coming up from getting
Kyle Pierce:getting in the Spirit. And you know, people get like messages
Kyle Pierce:from birds, you know, from spirits and they're like, kind
Kyle Pierce:of a long store goal. trend of you know, birds being like
Kyle Pierce:messengers from the other side. And that's maybe why I don't get
Kyle Pierce:any because I hate birds so much.
Tristan Paylor:Yeah, you might get some valuable information
Tristan Paylor:from the spirit world if if you just let birds alone. Give them
Tristan Paylor:a chance.
Kyle Pierce:I am fine with birds overall. I just did in the
Kyle Pierce:morning when they start chirping so early. It's so disturbing.
Kyle Pierce:Just like these little noises. Like in the morning when you're
Kyle Pierce:trying to sleep. Like that really early morning. I don't
Kyle Pierce:know that though. You get up at what maybe that's why you get up
Kyle Pierce:maybe it's the birds fault that you get up.
Tristan Paylor:It's the window cleaners fault. It's my partner
Tristan Paylor:who gets up Burley in the morning to go out and clean
Tristan Paylor:windows every day. He's He's the bird that gets me up.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah. Well,
Unknown:I don't trust morning people.
Kyle Pierce:But I have never been a morning person. And yeah,
Kyle Pierce:birds, birds get in the way of of that.
Tristan Paylor:That's understandable. I can respect
Tristan Paylor:that I can respect wanting your peace in the morning. Yeah, it's
Tristan Paylor:interesting how in it sort of a trope in movies where the
Tristan Paylor:protagonist starts off, not being a morning person. And then
Tristan Paylor:they go on this whole adventure, and it's life changing. And then
Tristan Paylor:by the end of the movie, they're up at the crack of dawn, cooking
Tristan Paylor:breakfast, or whatever. And this is supposed to be like a
Tristan Paylor:demonstration of how they've like grown into themselves. And
Tristan Paylor:I kind of resent that because yeah, implies that people who
Tristan Paylor:are not morning people are like, somehow less advanced, like
Tristan Paylor:being a morning person is something we should strive for
Tristan Paylor:when it's like, it's actually a matter of your inherent biology,
Tristan Paylor:which is not under your conscious control is not a
Tristan Paylor:virtue be treated, the morning person is not emerged you any
Tristan Paylor:more than being a negative seeing a benefit. Yeah, it works
Tristan Paylor:in the current context of most of our working lives.
Kyle Pierce:Now I want to like see, see, that can look at a
Kyle Pierce:chart and see that seems very much like it like the dignity
Kyle Pierce:system in some way. And like, just by virtue of like your
Kyle Pierce:nature, you know, you just happen to fit into what society
Kyle Pierce:likes.
Tristan Paylor:And maybe this is a manifestation of my
Tristan Paylor:partner's exalted sun in Aries conjunct Jupiter is that he's
Tristan Paylor:able to be a morning person. Hmm, yeah, it's, it's what is
Tristan Paylor:favored by by society? Yeah, I don't know. I mean, I'm, I'm,
Tristan Paylor:like, midnight to 9am Or like, 11pm to 8am kind of person.
Tristan Paylor:That's nice. That's not an early morning person. But
Kyle Pierce:if you take away all obligations, for me, I'm
Kyle Pierce:like 4am to, to noon person when I would like my body wants to
Kyle Pierce:sleep around dawn when the birds start chirping. And don't let me
Kyle Pierce:go to sleep. Though I don't get to do that now. Anyway, so thank
Kyle Pierce:you birds, for making.
Tristan Paylor:They're trying to hedge more on sustainable
Tristan Paylor:making sure. Making sure you get to work on time. They're just
Tristan Paylor:looking out for you. I would certainly be curious to know if
Tristan Paylor:either of our question askers this episode are morning people.
Tristan Paylor:Because our clearance because there's a lot of Cardinal energy
Tristan Paylor:happening in this episode. Lots of cardinal sign action going
Tristan Paylor:on. Yeah,
Kyle Pierce:good. Nice segue. Tristan.
Tristan Paylor:Yeah, you're welcome.
Kyle Pierce:brings us into our our first question. So our first
Kyle Pierce:question comes from jet. And jet has she has a Cardinal Grand
Kyle Pierce:Cross in her chart, and would like to know more about grand
Kyle Pierce:crosses, in general, but for more focus on Cardinal green
Kyle Pierce:crosses, in particular. And she has also shared her chart with
Kyle Pierce:us, which, you know, is a pretty awesome example of a Grand Cross
Kyle Pierce:so well. You know what first thing that comes to your mind
Kyle Pierce:when you think of grand grace is Tristan.
Tristan Paylor:The key words that come to mind for me are
Tristan Paylor:dynamic tension. And how that plays out obviously depends on
Tristan Paylor:the planets involved in the Grand Cross and the mode that
Tristan Paylor:they're in. I feel like it probably be helpful. In case we
Tristan Paylor:have listeners who are very new to astrology to define some of
Tristan Paylor:our terms first, so maybe we can explain what a Grand Cross is
Tristan Paylor:and what Cardinal means, because the modes are important when it
Tristan Paylor:comes to Grand crosses. So a Grand Cross is an aspect
Tristan Paylor:pattern. It is formed by four planets that are all in the same
Tristan Paylor:mode. The three modes are Cardinal, fixed and mutable. So
Tristan Paylor:all 12 signs of the zodiac can be divided into these three
Tristan Paylor:modes. And signs that have the same mode will either square or
Tristan Paylor:oppose one another by aspects which is a tense sort of aspect,
Tristan Paylor:a challenging aspect. Both the opposite addition and the square
Tristan Paylor:are associated with the malefic planets. So not as like easy and
Tristan Paylor:comfortable as the other aspects that could happen in a chart. So
Tristan Paylor:the signs that are configured by a Grand Cross all have mode in
Tristan Paylor:common, so they do have something in common. But there
Tristan Paylor:can potentially be some disagreement about what goal
Tristan Paylor:should be achieved with the energy they have, what sort of
Tristan Paylor:direction they should be going in, there can be some sort of
Tristan Paylor:competing interests happening. And it's, it's pretty easy to
Tristan Paylor:spot a Grand Cross in a chart, if you're looking at the pattern
Tristan Paylor:of aspects in the middle of a chart, you'll see a great big
Tristan Paylor:square with an X in the middle, because you'll have two axes of
Tristan Paylor:opposition and four squares between all four of these
Tristan Paylor:planets all configured to each other.
Kyle Pierce:four squares and two opposition's
Tristan Paylor:exactly. I feel like that was probably a really
Tristan Paylor:long winded explanation.
Kyle Pierce:No, me No. And that's that's the essence of a
Kyle Pierce:Grand Cross. But this was like other things I like to consider
Kyle Pierce:just in not just grand crosses, but like interpreting squares
Kyle Pierce:and opposition's you know, when you think of how the house
Kyle Pierce:system is set up, you know, what are the the powerful houses the
Kyle Pierce:most energetic houses, the they're the angular houses, the
Kyle Pierce:first, the fourth, the seventh, and the 10th. So I mean, you
Kyle Pierce:know, squares, and opposition's involve a lot of energy, you
Kyle Pierce:know, they're, they're powerful. And maybe, depending on the
Kyle Pierce:planets involved, and their relationship to each other, you
Kyle Pierce:know, it could be more positive or more negative, more
Kyle Pierce:challenging. But it gets, it's good to consider how powerful
Kyle Pierce:can be different than favorable. You know, or powerful, powerful
Kyle Pierce:isn't always easy. You know, it's not always smooth.
Tristan Paylor:And I think that's a common interpretation
Tristan Paylor:of the Grand Cross is that it is an aspect pattern. That takes a
Tristan Paylor:lot of work.
Kyle Pierce:But also, well, I mean, the, there's so many
Kyle Pierce:factors involved in interpreting any given brain cross, but it
Kyle Pierce:also involves a lot of energy. Which can be a good thing. I
Kyle Pierce:think the challenge given the how there is sort of a conflict
Kyle Pierce:built into all these squares, and opposition's is figuring out
Kyle Pierce:how to channel that in a in a positive way. And my son has a
Kyle Pierce:as a Cardinal Grand Cross. It's actually a very tight one. And
Kyle Pierce:it's funny watching him play video games, because he is never
Kyle Pierce:sitting down while he's playing. And he's always jumping, and
Kyle Pierce:talking, while he's playing. He's doing all these things,
Kyle Pierce:same time while playing this game. And that's kind of like
Kyle Pierce:what a Cardinal Grand Cross in particular, but Green Cross in
Kyle Pierce:general is that it's like multiple impulses or multiple
Kyle Pierce:intentions, that are kind of at odds, you know, like, when I sit
Kyle Pierce:in play video games, I sit and I hone in on on the game. You
Kyle Pierce:know, if you try to talk to me, while I'm doing that, I'll
Kyle Pierce:probably get annoyed with you. And while Declan likes to. He
Kyle Pierce:likes to talk to you while I was playing the game, he likes to
Kyle Pierce:talk to himself while he's playing the game. To move
Kyle Pierce:around. I would say that there are ways to start with a way to
Kyle Pierce:kind of manage that energy or I think traditionally, a lot of
Kyle Pierce:what makes a opposition well square more difficult is the
Kyle Pierce:lack of affinity I guess between the two elements, like Aries on
Kyle Pierce:a planet in Aries would be squaring a planet in cancer. So
Kyle Pierce:one is fire and one is water and the two very different elements.
Kyle Pierce:So I mean, you get boiling water, I suppose or but water
Kyle Pierce:could also put out the fire. They sort of destabilize to some
Kyle Pierce:degree but they also promote change. The interaction promotes
Kyle Pierce:change, while you know what stabilizing Trine is gonna maybe
Kyle Pierce:promote a more more stable movement more stable. And once
Kyle Pierce:they stay It is quo, but like a train, it's like, you know,
Kyle Pierce:starting a job and getting a promotion after you know, a
Kyle Pierce:certain amount of time or getting a steady raise, get
Kyle Pierce:along with your coworkers, while like a square might be like a
Kyle Pierce:sudden job change, or, you know, getting in a conflict with your
Kyle Pierce:boss, and maybe your boss gets fired, and then you get to take
Kyle Pierce:their job or something, or the other way around.
Tristan Paylor:And I think that's all that's all excellent,
Tristan Paylor:I love the description of a Grand Cross being sort of like
Tristan Paylor:multiple impulses, that are all trying to express themselves at
Tristan Paylor:once and all in different areas. And you know, the, the person
Tristan Paylor:who's dealing with that sort of energy in their life is sort of
Tristan Paylor:in this position of having to juggle all those different
Tristan Paylor:impulses and all the different directions they want to go in,
Tristan Paylor:you know, in this case, it's four different directions,
Tristan Paylor:you're sort of being pulled in all at once, I think, especially
Tristan Paylor:with the Cardinal Grand Cross, because Cardinal energy is all
Tristan Paylor:about momentum, and forward movement and initiation. It is
Tristan Paylor:all about change and initiating change. And you add cardinality
Tristan Paylor:to the symbolism of the square, which is the aspect of Mars, so
Tristan Paylor:you know, more challenging and more extreme, I like that
Tristan Paylor:comparison of like, you know, getting a job and, you know,
Tristan Paylor:sort of getting promoted, you know, when you're your job
Tristan Paylor:review, and everything is just kind of going along as expected.
Tristan Paylor:Like it's sort of going along according to script, that's very
Tristan Paylor:much what the train, the energy of the train is, like, you know,
Tristan Paylor:are being on the, the so called relationship escalator where you
Tristan Paylor:know, you, you date, and then you know, you get engaged and
Tristan Paylor:then you get married, you have kids, it's sort of like the
Tristan Paylor:traditional cultural script for how a relationship is supposed
Tristan Paylor:to change and grow or how, you know, the workplace is your
Tristan Paylor:position, or your workplace is supposed to change and grow.
Tristan Paylor:Whereas with a square, it's like, anything goes like
Tristan Paylor:anything could happen at any point, you could be bouncing
Tristan Paylor:from one extreme to the other. So it's that it's a little it's
Tristan Paylor:a little more chaotic.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, and it's making me think of you, your
Kyle Pierce:preferred exercise routine is climbing stairs, right?
Tristan Paylor:Yeah, well, I was climbing stairs for a while,
Tristan Paylor:and then I got a hold of an exercise bike. So it's been it's
Tristan Paylor:been either way, it's the sort of like stationary, like,
Tristan Paylor:steady, you know, one direction at a time, kind of, it's not
Tristan Paylor:very kale. Yeah.
Kyle Pierce:Well, just, it's making me think of just the
Kyle Pierce:square by itself, right? And just the shape of it, it's right
Kyle Pierce:angle, you know, I'll try and it's like, a nice, you know, can
Kyle Pierce:you think of like a ramp? Did you kind of walk up the ramp,
Kyle Pierce:and you don't have to like, it's like a gentle, slow, gentle
Kyle Pierce:slope that you, you know, slowly climb up, and it doesn't take.
Kyle Pierce:You're not expending quite as much energy, at least not at one
Kyle Pierce:moment. But it might take you a little longer to get to the top
Kyle Pierce:of the, you know, has to be a longer ramp to get to cover the
Kyle Pierce:same distance. While stairs, you know, you climb up each stair
Kyle Pierce:and if you've ever climbed up Winchester years, wears you out
Kyle Pierce:pretty fast, right? So I kind of hard on your knees, but you can
Kyle Pierce:also get up to higher levels faster.
Tristan Paylor:Oh, yeah, that's a good point where it's like the
Tristan Paylor:steepness. So I feel like that. That's good commentary on the
Tristan Paylor:nature of Capricorn, which is a cardinal sign. And, you know,
Tristan Paylor:because Capricorn tends to be associated more with tradition
Tristan Paylor:and restraint. And you know, it has this sort of holding on or
Tristan Paylor:blocking kind of energy. I think sometimes it's hard to
Tristan Paylor:understand what makes Capricorn Cardinal but it's that like, you
Tristan Paylor:are moving, you're just moving through more difficult terrain.
Tristan Paylor:So your movement is maybe not as quick or as obvious as it would
Tristan Paylor:be in a sign like cancer or Aries, but you are nonetheless,
Tristan Paylor:you know, making forward movement. You're just kind of
Tristan Paylor:struggling for like climbing up very, very steep stairs. Yeah.
Kyle Pierce:Rugged, rugged terrain. Yeah, that makes me
Kyle Pierce:think we'll just say a bit about difference between Cardinal
Kyle Pierce:mutable and fixed, just so we maybe talk a little bit about
Kyle Pierce:like the differences between like a Cardinal Grand Cross and
Kyle Pierce:the fixed one and the mutable one. That Cardinal is all about,
Kyle Pierce:you know, initiating things, it's initiating actions that are
Kyle Pierce:the beginnings of things, starting things like a starting
Kyle Pierce:up a company or something. Fixed signs are, I guess, status quo
Kyle Pierce:to a degree, but they're kind of talking about things that are
Kyle Pierce:already established already happening. And they sort
Tristan Paylor:of they maintain the establishment. Yeah,
Kyle Pierce:there's more of a lasting quality to fix signs,
Kyle Pierce:but they're also you know, not as movable, you know, it's
Kyle Pierce:already happening, the momentum is already there. And mutable
Kyle Pierce:would be more about like the the endings of things, but also the
Kyle Pierce:more transitory you think of like seasons Pisces, for
Kyle Pierce:example. So mutable sign, it kind of comes at the very end of
Kyle Pierce:winter, just before spring, so there's kind of that in between
Kyle Pierce:period where it's kind of winter still, but it's, it's, you know,
Kyle Pierce:the snows kind of starting to melt, sort of like preparing
Kyle Pierce:for, for spring. So like mutable signs are a bit more adaptable,
Kyle Pierce:but they maybe have a similar struggle is like cardinal signs
Kyle Pierce:is kind of maintaining direction, right? Like they're
Kyle Pierce:not as sort of maybe what like mutable signs aren't as good at,
Kyle Pierce:like staying on one task, you know, for a long period of time.
Tristan Paylor:Yeah, I think of mutable as switching back and
Tristan Paylor:forth, or, or sort of being in two places at once or doing two
Tristan Paylor:things at once. The the traditional term for them as
Tristan Paylor:double bodied signs. And if you look at opportunity to symbols
Tristan Paylor:for the mutable signs, yeah, there have two natures, or
Tristan Paylor:they're literally split in two. And you can see it with all of
Tristan Paylor:the symbols even, you know, Virgo is maybe the least obvious
Tristan Paylor:but Virgo is often depicted as an angel, which is of two
Tristan Paylor:natures right of, of the mind and spirit, you have a human who
Tristan Paylor:also has some sort of divine nature as well. And you know,
Tristan Paylor:Gemini and Pisces are pretty obvious because they're both
Tristan Paylor:symbolized by two things. And you know, this, the center of
Tristan Paylor:Sagittarius is half human, half horse. So you with all four
Tristan Paylor:signs, you have this meeting of two natures, sort of both acting
Tristan Paylor:at once, or alternating. And I think that's sort of the key
Tristan Paylor:difference between mutable and Cardinal, because both of those
Tristan Paylor:modalities are about change. But in the case of Cardinal, it's
Tristan Paylor:more like, you know, moving from one thing to the next, and with
Tristan Paylor:mutable, it's more about having your foot your feet planted in
Tristan Paylor:two different worlds simultaneously. Yeah. And having
Tristan Paylor:to sort of be flexible, because you never know what sort of
Tristan Paylor:demands might be placed on you by the sort of opposite
Tristan Paylor:expectations.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, and I guess thinking about that, in the
Kyle Pierce:context of grand crosses, like a generally, I mean, a lot of the
Kyle Pierce:common discussion around Grand crosses and think in practice,
Kyle Pierce:when I, like, I've noticed is that Cardinal Grand crosses are
Kyle Pierce:a little I want to say easier, but they're a little. Like a
Kyle Pierce:Grand Cross is more compatible with the nature of Cardinal
Kyle Pierce:signs in general. Yeah. Can you think of somebody like kind of,
Kyle Pierce:like constantly starting new things? Like I don't know, like
Kyle Pierce:getting like multiple balls rolling? And maybe always having
Kyle Pierce:these like, different balls rolling all the time. So it
Kyle Pierce:makes me think of the way that he you know, anything about how
Kyle Pierce:like, electric motors work?
Tristan Paylor:I'm absolutely terrible at anything mechanical.
Tristan Paylor:I did not understand it.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah. I mean, I don't I only know the essence of
Kyle Pierce:of it. I am not mechanical in any way. Yeah, so essentially,
Kyle Pierce:the way a motor works is, you know, when a electric current
Kyle Pierce:passes through a coil, in a magnetic field, the magnetic
Kyle Pierce:force produces like torque, which turns the motor and then
Kyle Pierce:there's like a communicator that like reverses the current, each
Kyle Pierce:half revolution to like keep the torque turning the same coil,
Kyle Pierce:like in the same direction. So like, you know, creates this
Kyle Pierce:very, you know, active movement. And while it's only you know,
Kyle Pierce:dealing with two pole poles like a good well oiled Grand Cross,
Kyle Pierce:makes me think of that of like how electric motor works. It's a
Kyle Pierce:lot of dynamic energy. That when you know going smoothly, can
Kyle Pierce:generate a lot of power generate a lot of dynamic action. It can
Kyle Pierce:be like very constructive.
Tristan Paylor:It can but I can imagine it you No, can also get
Tristan Paylor:very tiring because that motor does not shut off in the case of
Tristan Paylor:a Cardinal Grand Cross going, although you know the the nature
Tristan Paylor:of the planets involved can change that with with jets,
Tristan Paylor:Cardinal Grand Cross in particular, the four planets
Tristan Paylor:involved our Jupiter, Mars, Venus and the moon. And we've
Tristan Paylor:got Jet's chart up in the show notes. So if you want to take a
Tristan Paylor:look at it and follow along, please do so. So jet was born
Tristan Paylor:with Libra rising. And Jupiter is in Libra as well in the first
Tristan Paylor:house. So if you've been listening carefully, you may
Tristan Paylor:already realize that this particular garden Cardinal Grand
Tristan Paylor:Cross is taking place in the angular houses in jets chart,
Tristan Paylor:because Cardinal planet number one is Jupiter in Libra right
Tristan Paylor:there in the first house. Then we have the Moon in Capricorn,
Tristan Paylor:in the fourth house forming another point of the Grand
Tristan Paylor:Cross. And then in the seventh house, we have Venus in Aries.
Tristan Paylor:And finally, in the 10th house, we have Mars in Cancer. And that
Tristan Paylor:completes our Grand Cross of Cardinal planets. So something I
Tristan Paylor:find kind of interesting about this one is that you have some
Tristan Paylor:like, pretty soft and gentle planets making up you know, the
Tristan Paylor:three points at the bottom of the Grand Cross, at least, you
Tristan Paylor:know, visually in this chart there at the bottom there. And
Tristan Paylor:although like, you know, the moon and Capricorn and Venus in
Tristan Paylor:Aries are maybe not as traditionally soft and fluffy as
Tristan Paylor:the Moon and Venus are sort of like pure archetypes of
Tristan Paylor:themselves. It's, you know, despite being like, you know,
Tristan Paylor:them all squaring and opposing each other, you know, those are
Tristan Paylor:generally pretty gentle natured planets. And when you have a
Tristan Paylor:square from a benefic planet, like Jupiter or Venus, it's
Tristan Paylor:actually really supportive. And if the benefic is earlier in the
Tristan Paylor:order of zodiacal signs, and it's squaring another planet,
Tristan Paylor:it's actually modifying that planet so it's, it's giving it
Tristan Paylor:so much support that ancient astrologers are just like, this
Tristan Paylor:is one of the best things that you can possibly have in a
Tristan Paylor:chart. So even though it's like it's still a tense aspect, when
Tristan Paylor:you have the benefits involved, it's it's a little bit less like
Tristan Paylor:somebody's trying to fight you and a little bit more like, you
Tristan Paylor:know, maybe an accountability buddy who, you know, they, they
Tristan Paylor:do light a little bit of a fire under your butt to get moving,
Tristan Paylor:but in a very supportive, friendly, gentle sort of way,
Tristan Paylor:you know, and they're, they're providing resources and, you
Tristan Paylor:know, maybe wisdom and advice like, in the case of Jupiter and
Tristan Paylor:Libra, squaring the Moon in Capricorn, Jupiter is you know,
Tristan Paylor:quantifying the moon. So you know, that sort of like, Jupiter
Tristan Paylor:may be acting as a mentor, or, you know, giving the moon some
Tristan Paylor:good advice or giving the moon like connections or, you know,
Tristan Paylor:literal resources that help the moon do what it wants to do. So,
Tristan Paylor:it's, it's still, you know, a little bit more active than if
Tristan Paylor:that was a Trine but it's nonetheless like, you know, not
Tristan Paylor:traditionally a difficult aspect despite being a square. But then
Tristan Paylor:when you get to the top of the Grand Cross, you have Mars and I
Tristan Paylor:feel like Mars is really the, you know, the one that's kind of
Tristan Paylor:moving all of this and like injecting a little bit of like
Tristan Paylor:fire and sharpness into this overall Grand Cross and sort of
Tristan Paylor:stirring the pot.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah. Yeah, well, it's mean, squares or the nature
Kyle Pierce:of Mars, right? But squares with like, genetics, or software
Kyle Pierce:planets, you know, I think like, the essential energy of a square
Kyle Pierce:is just, it's excessive to some degree, or just like a lot. So,
Kyle Pierce:you know, that can look like more. You know, just thinking of
Kyle Pierce:like the mentor. analogy, like you have your mentor that's
Kyle Pierce:like, way to go like, you know, you're on the right track. You
Kyle Pierce:know, maybe touch up this here and there. You know, keep
Kyle Pierce:putting your work in and like, you know, you're on your way to,
Kyle Pierce:you know, that fantastic acid essay that you've been wanting
Kyle Pierce:to write while like You know, with the square like Jupiter,
Kyle Pierce:squaring the moon, right? Look a little more like, more
Kyle Pierce:energetic, enthusiastic, praise or enthusiasm. You want to like
Kyle Pierce:push forward faster, can be a little excessive, though, like
Kyle Pierce:maybe unrealistic expectations that are overall positive, like
Kyle Pierce:pushing you forward in a positive direction
Tristan Paylor:creates sort of a high standard to live up to.
Tristan Paylor:Yeah, there's like he has a real sense of ambition.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, when I think like Moon Jupiter, I always just
Kyle Pierce:feel like, like optimism, you know, right, it's very, adds a
Kyle Pierce:lot of optimism to the moon, right to your emotional state to
Kyle Pierce:some degree. And then like a smoother aspect, you know, it's
Kyle Pierce:a little more realistic optimism. But in like a harder
Kyle Pierce:aspect, it might be a little more excessive, you know, that
Kyle Pierce:could be, you know, met with disappointment here and there,
Kyle Pierce:too. I guess, you know, the, the hard aspects being of the nature
Kyle Pierce:of both in the Olympics in the Olympics, and dealing with
Kyle Pierce:extremes, I do like to think of excess with hard aspects, which
Kyle Pierce:can be nice. If it's like, Jupiter, or square Venus, having
Kyle Pierce:excess money, or friends, is great. But they can also, you
Kyle Pierce:know, you could party too much as well,
Tristan Paylor:I think some of the potential difficulties with
Tristan Paylor:the nature of a Cardinal Grand Cross are a risk of burnout, you
Tristan Paylor:know, trying to take on too much trying to do too much trying to
Tristan Paylor:do too much at once, not giving yourself enough of a break
Tristan Paylor:between projects or feeling pulled in, you know, in this
Tristan Paylor:case, you're literally being pulled in four directions at
Tristan Paylor:once, that's sort of the visually, that's what the Grand
Tristan Paylor:Cross is, is like your life sort of being pulled with the same
Tristan Paylor:amount of like, intensity and ambition, but in four different
Tristan Paylor:directions, all at the same time. Which, you know, some
Tristan Paylor:people can certainly pull off, but you know, there's, there's a
Tristan Paylor:point at which you need to stop and rest because there is only
Tristan Paylor:so much that any one of us is capable of. And this one in
Tristan Paylor:particular, you know, taking place in the angular houses is
Tristan Paylor:really interesting, because you have a planet in the first
Tristan Paylor:house, which has to do with the self, and, you know, having a
Tristan Paylor:strong sense of individual identity. And the fourth house,
Tristan Paylor:which has to do with home and family, and the seventh house
Tristan Paylor:that has to do with relationships, and the 10th
Tristan Paylor:house, that has to do with your career, and your you know,
Tristan Paylor:interface with the world and your public life, which are all
Tristan Paylor:sort of, you know, they're the angular houses, because those
Tristan Paylor:are the four sort of most pivotal and usually significant
Tristan Paylor:areas of life for all of us that are pretty universal, right? You
Tristan Paylor:know, that's, that is where we encounter things that profoundly
Tristan Paylor:change us and that move our story forward significantly. So
Tristan Paylor:there can be, you know, perhaps a sense of competing ambitions
Tristan Paylor:where it's like, you know, I want to be the best me I can
Tristan Paylor:possibly be is what Jupiter in the first house is saying, and,
Tristan Paylor:you know, the moon in the fourth house is saying, like, I want to
Tristan Paylor:be, you know, the best family member ever, and I want to have,
Tristan Paylor:you know, a really fulfilling private life and have like, a
Tristan Paylor:lovely home, I want it to be like clean and organized and you
Tristan Paylor:know, all of the sorts of ambitions you could have related
Tristan Paylor:to home and family and then you know, Venus in the seventh house
Tristan Paylor:is like I want to have really great relationships and you
Tristan Paylor:know, be it be an expert on you know, interpersonal interaction
Tristan Paylor:and the Mars in the 10th is like, I want to be I want a
Tristan Paylor:legacy, you know, I want to make a name for myself in the world,
Tristan Paylor:and have you know, pursue a career that gives me a sense of
Tristan Paylor:purpose and trying to have all four of those things sort of
Tristan Paylor:like maxtow You're sort of like mid maxing and a video game
Tristan Paylor:right like it's, that's a lot like it's it's certainly a
Tristan Paylor:worthwhile ambition to have but you know, there's this sense of
Tristan Paylor:like, wanting to be the best and achieve as much as possible in
Tristan Paylor:like all of the really significant areas of life all at
Tristan Paylor:once.
Kyle Pierce:Oh, yeah. Yeah, no, that's like the maxing out your
Kyle Pierce:your video game character analogy. It's like usually most
Kyle Pierce:games like there's like a you know, you get so many wonder XP
Kyle Pierce:points that You can put towards different upgrading different
Kyle Pierce:skills, you know, so you're not going to get like a character
Kyle Pierce:with 100 points in all, all the different categories, you know,
Kyle Pierce:usually emphasizing like agility is going to come at the expense
Kyle Pierce:of something else, you know, if you want to be agile you need
Kyle Pierce:you can't be as strong or something. So yeah, I think
Kyle Pierce:Grendel Grendel, a
Tristan Paylor:garden home grant grant an owl, or just a
Kyle Pierce:Green Cross in general. Yeah, it's gonna kind
Kyle Pierce:of look like that, like, wanting to put so much energy in so many
Kyle Pierce:different things. But you, there's a maximum limit, human
Kyle Pierce:wise and time wise to, you know, how much you can accomplish in
Kyle Pierce:each area, like you kind of have to, to focus it a bit. To get
Kyle Pierce:results, it's gonna look like starting a lot of things, maybe
Kyle Pierce:not finishing them in theory.
Tristan Paylor:You know, there's, so I have, I don't have
Tristan Paylor:a Grand Cross in my chart. But I do have an extremely Cardinal
Tristan Paylor:chart. It's like, 95% Cardinal, it's ridiculous how Cardinal my
Tristan Paylor:chart is. When I was first doing astrology classes, my astrology
Tristan Paylor:teacher put all of our charts up on the wall. And mine was the
Tristan Paylor:one chart that would not stay stuck to the wall. Yeah, it just
Tristan Paylor:kept the tape kept peeling away from the wall, and it kept
Tristan Paylor:falling down. And we would just joke that like it was it was to
Tristan Paylor:Cardinal to stay in this place. And I remember, as a kid,
Tristan Paylor:reading some sort of children's novel, I don't remember the
Tristan Paylor:book. I don't remember what it was about. But I have a vivid
Tristan Paylor:memory of this one scene in the book, where a character got into
Tristan Paylor:an apple harvest, I think, and just took a single bite out of
Tristan Paylor:every single one of the Oh, yeah, like that. Yeah. And like,
Tristan Paylor:you know, when their parent or caregiver, whoever it was, saw
Tristan Paylor:what happened, they were just like, I mean, you know, the
Tristan Paylor:whole the apple harvest was ruined. But like, instead of
Tristan Paylor:getting, you know, angry and upset, they were like, Why did
Tristan Paylor:you do this? And the kid was like, because the first byte
Tristan Paylor:tastes the best. That's the best one. And I've never related to
Tristan Paylor:anything so hard in my entire life. Like, I've forgotten the
Tristan Paylor:whole the context that the story was in, but I was just like,
Tristan Paylor:Yeah, it's true. The first the first bite is the best. And I
Tristan Paylor:think Cardinal energy can be a bit like that, like taking one
Tristan Paylor:bite out of 1000 apples. Yeah.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, that's, that's a great analogy. Say I
Kyle Pierce:have a very fixed chart. We think like, what, six of my
Kyle Pierce:planets are involved in a T square, which is not quite the
Kyle Pierce:same as his Grand Cross, but similar. And yeah, I do. I have
Kyle Pierce:a similar tendency to want to put a lot of energy and a lot of
Kyle Pierce:different things. But it do have a little bit harder of a time
Kyle Pierce:with initiating things kind of want to skip to the, to the
Kyle Pierce:middle part of the language where everything's just running
Kyle Pierce:smoothly, I want to get to that part. And there's kind of the
Kyle Pierce:frustration with like, a more of a fixed goodbye, that to like a
Kyle Pierce:Grand Cross, like a fixed Grand Cross would be harder to get
Kyle Pierce:moving. You know, you'd like a lot more stuck sort of energy.
Kyle Pierce:Leave a lot of it's gonna say like a catch. 22.
Tristan Paylor:Like, do I like that description of just wanting
Tristan Paylor:to get to the middle part? You know, just wanting it's funny
Tristan Paylor:because I
Kyle Pierce:don't eat the crust. When I want the oldest
Kyle Pierce:stuff in the middle.
Tristan Paylor:Yeah, you want the middle of the Oreo, juicy
Tristan Paylor:middle part. Yeah.
Kyle Pierce:I want to get a little bit more into focus a
Kyle Pierce:little bit on jets, Grand Cross,
Tristan Paylor:because there is no Saturn in this Grand Cross.
Tristan Paylor:So it's really the wheels turning, there's kind of nobody,
Tristan Paylor:nobody has their foot on the brake. In this particular Grand
Tristan Paylor:Cross.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, they're all planets that are down to move,
Kyle Pierce:you know? Yeah, the moon is very fast moving Venus. You know,
Kyle Pierce:benefics I mean, just Jupiter, it has its domiciles are mutable
Kyle Pierce:but has an exultation and a cardinal sign. Venus has a
Kyle Pierce:domicile in the cardinal sign. The moon, you know, it's
Kyle Pierce:domiciles Cardinal Mars likes Cardinal. They're there, you
Kyle Pierce:know. You're down to move. So I would Yeah, I would think a lot
Kyle Pierce:of restless movement, but there. I would think that like, when
Kyle Pierce:there's a lot of reception involved, I think that you get a
Kyle Pierce:little bit more of the electric motor running as opposed was two
Kyle Pierce:parts a bunch of parts that don't really fit together, you
Kyle Pierce:know, like finding a way to, to harmonize them or to combine
Kyle Pierce:things is gonna be easier. I think when there's reception and
Kyle Pierce:there's quite a bit in this one
Tristan Paylor:you got a lot, there's a lot of reception going
Tristan Paylor:on there a lot of like, there's some potential disagreements,
Tristan Paylor:but there are a lot of there's a lot of sympathy going on as
Tristan Paylor:well.
Kyle Pierce:Oh, yeah. Yeah, I think like Venus is an Aries.
Kyle Pierce:And it's in the overcoming square with Mars, and Mars rules
Kyle Pierce:Aries. So I mean, there is a sort of an exchange of like a
Kyle Pierce:trade relationship or something between countries where you have
Kyle Pierce:something you want, and you have something I want, so we don't
Kyle Pierce:need to fight each other. It's, it's actually more profitable
Kyle Pierce:for us not to fight in, in, you know, do business,
Tristan Paylor:and the Venus being in the seventh house,
Tristan Paylor:representing relationships and partnerships. But also being an
Tristan Paylor:Aries, which is the sign of Venus is detriment, you know,
Tristan Paylor:which could indicate relationships that are a little
Tristan Paylor:more unconventional, or that go against the grain in some way.
Tristan Paylor:But nonetheless, you know, those relationships are supporting
Tristan Paylor:what Mars is trying to do. So, you know, this can be, you know,
Tristan Paylor:you you want to have the greatest relationships and also
Tristan Paylor:have the greatest career, but they're, those two areas of life
Tristan Paylor:are actually potentially really working together. Well, yeah,
Tristan Paylor:both of the planets are in kind of unconventional signs. So you
Tristan Paylor:know, if it's a, a relationship, that's, you know, a little a
Tristan Paylor:little Venus and Aries II, you know, a little bit a
Tristan Paylor:relationship that kind of goes off script or sort of defies
Tristan Paylor:norms or expectations in some way, Mars in Cancer is also a
Tristan Paylor:Mars that defies expectations. So, you know, they've kind of
Tristan Paylor:got each other's back in that sense. And, you know, because
Tristan Paylor:Venus is in the domicile of Mars and is in, you know, the
Tristan Paylor:overcoming position, it's sort of like, Venus is being treated
Tristan Paylor:as a guest of Mars, but also has, you know, a certain amount
Tristan Paylor:of power in that situation. You know, because Venus is earlier
Tristan Paylor:in zodiacal order, you know, Venus is able to, to make
Tristan Paylor:demands of their host. Yeah, so, you know, I would, I would think
Tristan Paylor:that's actually like, it's, it's dynamic, and, you know,
Tristan Paylor:potentially challenging and that, you know, what you might
Tristan Paylor:want to do in those two areas of life, you know, you may have to
Tristan Paylor:do some of those, you know, achieve some of those goals in a
Tristan Paylor:way that is defiant of, you know, what is expected of you.
Tristan Paylor:But, nonetheless, those two areas of life are supporting one
Tristan Paylor:another. Yeah, it's not a contest. It's not like it's
Tristan Paylor:sometimes with grand crosses, it can be like one area of life,
Tristan Paylor:implicated in the Grand Cross needs to be sacrificed for
Tristan Paylor:another or, you know, like, how do you compromise between these
Tristan Paylor:four competing interests, and there's one that's sort of
Tristan Paylor:asking the other to make a sacrifice, like you need to
Tristan Paylor:spend less time on your relationships if you want to
Tristan Paylor:pursue you know, graduate degree or whatever it is, you know,
Tristan Paylor:those two areas of your life are demanding that one of them needs
Tristan Paylor:to be sacrificed for the other in this section of the Grand
Tristan Paylor:Cross it doesn't look like that kind of situation. It doesn't
Tristan Paylor:look like relationships or career needs to be sacrificed
Tristan Paylor:for the other
Kyle Pierce:No. You know, not necessarily how it's played out
Kyle Pierce:or played out yet but that makes me think of like a like a power
Kyle Pierce:couple. Like there are a couple
Tristan Paylor:eccentric power couple but
Kyle Pierce:like they don't have to Yeah, they don't have to
Kyle Pierce:exist as two separate spheres of life like there's ways that they
Kyle Pierce:can merge yeah to some degree and support each other. Which
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, which I thought the ways I can think of that that would
Kyle Pierce:play out more favorably similarly to like with the Venus
Kyle Pierce:Venus is opposing Jupiter in the first and Venus rules Jupiter
Kyle Pierce:you know like there's a there's reception there not that we
Kyle Pierce:would be too worried about a Venus Jupiter opposition and
Kyle Pierce:thankfully I think
Tristan Paylor:realizing Yeah, also that that's
Kyle Pierce:why We are and energetic, enthusiastic.
Tristan Paylor:And so when I think of when I think of like
Tristan Paylor:Venus and Jupiter and heart aspect to each other, I think
Tristan Paylor:more of like two friends who really love each other, like
Tristan Paylor:shouting overtop of other voices and music at a bar so they can
Tristan Paylor:hear each other, you know, or it's just like that kind of
Tristan Paylor:exuberant,
Kyle Pierce:energy and each other to more and more fire
Tristan Paylor:pushing each other to succeed a little.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, that one I like. And Jupiter is also in a
Kyle Pierce:position where it can modify the moon and overcoming square with
Kyle Pierce:with the moon, in Capricorn in the fourth, which I think helps.
Kyle Pierce:The fact that like Mars has been modified by Venus in the moon
Kyle Pierce:has been modified by Jupiter. And it helps with that
Kyle Pierce:opposition, the Moon and Mars. But there is some reception
Kyle Pierce:there as well. Mars, exalted in Capricorn, in the moon rules,
Kyle Pierce:cancer, like a mixed reception, not that that's gonna, you know,
Kyle Pierce:make that the easiest aspect in the world by any means, but
Kyle Pierce:it's, it's gonna help a lot. It describes like a, like
Kyle Pierce:difficulty, but it's sort of, because they are to some degree
Kyle Pierce:responsible to each other, Mars and the Moon. There, it sort of
Kyle Pierce:points to a path to like integrating the two, to making
Kyle Pierce:them more cooperative, or making, you know, more maybe
Kyle Pierce:more obvious, obvious, but more accessible solutions to the
Kyle Pierce:problems that that opposition describes.
Tristan Paylor:And looking in to that opposition with more
Tristan Paylor:detail. You know, we've got the moon in the fourth house and
Tristan Paylor:Mars in the 10th. And the moon is generally about relaxation,
Tristan Paylor:and how we get comfortable, how we take care of ourselves, you
Tristan Paylor:know, the the moon is, is a cozy sort of energy, and, you know,
Tristan Paylor:has to do with like, where we're doing the moon, when we are
Tristan Paylor:unwinding, you know, we're doing the moon when we're nourishing
Tristan Paylor:ourselves, you know, when we're taking a nice bubble bath and
Tristan Paylor:having a snack like that's, that's a lunar activity,
Tristan Paylor:typically not marketing, not when we're on Mars, saying, you
Tristan Paylor:know, we're out trying to take over the world. So, you know,
Tristan Paylor:those two planets are generally at odds with each other, which
Tristan Paylor:is also why, you know, they don't tend to be super
Tristan Paylor:comfortable in each other's signs. So with, you know, the
Tristan Paylor:Mars opposition. One way that can manifest is difficulty
Tristan Paylor:relaxing, because the moon is how we get comfortable, and Mars
Tristan Paylor:is like, there's always a crisis, there's always an
Tristan Paylor:emergency as far as Mars is concerned, and there's always
Tristan Paylor:something else to do, and you need to always be vigilant and
Tristan Paylor:ready to act quickly. You know, in the poor Moon is like, I'm
Tristan Paylor:just trying to have a cup of tea and read my book and Mars is
Tristan Paylor:like, but at any moment, an alarm bell could go off, and you
Tristan Paylor:need to be ready. So there's, you know, and because of the
Tristan Paylor:houses they're in, that kind of fits in with the symbolism well
Tristan Paylor:to since the moon is in the fourth house, which is about
Tristan Paylor:home and private life. So like the moon here is really just
Tristan Paylor:like, I just want to go, you know, in into my private space,
Tristan Paylor:and, you know, not be seen by anybody and just relax and Mars
Tristan Paylor:is up there, like wanting to be seen in this very public place,
Tristan Paylor:being very ambitious being like, you know, we've got, you know,
Tristan Paylor:we don't have time for this, we've, we've got to keep working
Tristan Paylor:and working and working in order to, you know, achieve these
Tristan Paylor:ambitions. So it could, you know, potentially be a very
Tristan Paylor:restless energy that, you know, could be liable to burnout. But
Tristan Paylor:because the moon is in Mars, a sign of exultation, and Mars is
Tristan Paylor:in the moon's domicile, they do have a little more sympathy for
Tristan Paylor:each other. And they're able to kind of exchange resources a
Tristan Paylor:little bit, which I think takes the edge off of that
Tristan Paylor:combination.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah. Yeah, that was a good deal the edge and,
Kyle Pierce:like, you know, you can work from home, right? I mean,
Kyle Pierce:there's there's way Yeah, merge the fourth and 10th houses.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, it's not like an impossible thing. And having,
Kyle Pierce:you know, reception between the planets ruling those houses or
Kyle Pierce:plants in those houses, like is going to go by create like
Kyle Pierce:avenues, sort of outlets. So I mean, it's, I don't want to say
Kyle Pierce:like, oh, you know, it's gonna be easy to to sit back and relax
Kyle Pierce:and have your tea. But it may be like, I don't know, the some
Kyle Pierce:degree it's makes me think about the shark. How sharks can never
Kyle Pierce:stop swimming.
Tristan Paylor:Right? They can't just, yeah, they still
Tristan Paylor:they gotta keep moving
Kyle Pierce:while they swim while they sleep. You know?
Kyle Pierce:Yeah. After they drown if they don't, that's a really good
Kyle Pierce:image. So I mean, there's a way that like that that movement,
Kyle Pierce:that constant like energy and restlessness, it probably feels
Kyle Pierce:best, you know, when you're actually moving and acting on
Kyle Pierce:things, which can be very productive. But then yeah, like
Kyle Pierce:he's interested in the burnout. So, you know, I mean, it seems
Kyle Pierce:like having, I don't know, a cycle that could work pretty
Kyle Pierce:well of, you know, working hard and playing hard, or, you know,
Kyle Pierce:going on a nice vacation after, you know, a long stint of
Kyle Pierce:workaholism?
Tristan Paylor:Well, yeah, it's that the sort of extreme nature
Tristan Paylor:of these aspects and also just the extreme nature of literally
Tristan Paylor:anything that involves Mars, I think about will even like, you
Tristan Paylor:know, what my partner does, who has a very prolific chart. And
Tristan Paylor:his work is very seasonal. So he works insanely hard, you know,
Tristan Paylor:like 10 hour days, doing, like really demanding physical labor,
Tristan Paylor:and a ton of commuting, like he travels for hours every day. And
Tristan Paylor:then, you know, he has a whole bunch of projects at home, some
Tristan Paylor:of which are also connected to career. And so you know, he'll
Tristan Paylor:come home after a 10 hour shift, and you know, work for three
Tristan Paylor:more. And that's just you know, how he is, but then, because of
Tristan Paylor:the nature of his work, he also gets most of the winter off. So
Tristan Paylor:it's that going from one extreme to the next, like, you work
Tristan Paylor:yourself, you know, like a horse, and then you take, you
Tristan Paylor:know, a lot more time off at once compared to other people
Tristan Paylor:mean tea, I don't know I a lot about teaching, but I feel like
Tristan Paylor:teaching can probably be one of those jobs, too, or it's just
Tristan Paylor:like really demanding, and really intense when you're at
Tristan Paylor:work. And then you know, you get the summer off. And, yeah, so
Tristan Paylor:you're sort of bouncing between those two extremes all the time.
Tristan Paylor:Yeah. And
Kyle Pierce:I mean, that, I think the key is finding the
Kyle Pierce:balance, finding balance in that. And that could look very
Kyle Pierce:differently. I mean, it be like a daily sort of balance that
Kyle Pierce:maybe, like a broader scale, like, a seasonal sort of
Kyle Pierce:balance. But I mean, I think maybe the obvious problem to me
Kyle Pierce:is just the burnout, but just yeah, like even noticing when
Kyle Pierce:you're burning out, and maybe not until it's too late. Maybe
Kyle Pierce:having to do that a couple of times before you maybe get the
Kyle Pierce:message of like, oh, this is what happens when I'm burning
Kyle Pierce:out or when I'm not taking care of myself working too much.
Tristan Paylor:Yeah, that's thing that's the case with sort
Tristan Paylor:of more extreme types of energy is that you don't always when
Tristan Paylor:you're in the thick of it, you know, you're just sort of
Tristan Paylor:intoxicated by that, you know, needing to keep moving forward.
Tristan Paylor:And you don't actually know where the limits are until you
Tristan Paylor:reach them. And you hit that wall. I think that can be, you
Tristan Paylor:know, one of the characteristics of squares, and opposition's as
Tristan Paylor:you, you kind of do have to go too far a couple of times in
Tristan Paylor:order to know where to far is and then you're like, Okay, I
Tristan Paylor:understand how to work with this now. But you kind of have to
Tristan Paylor:learn the lesson the hard way at times.
Kyle Pierce:I mean, speaking from experience, and to some
Kyle Pierce:degree, it's a can t squares not quite the same, but he gets some
Kyle Pierce:similar manifestations? I don't know. Yeah, almost like, it's
Kyle Pierce:like the hard aspects make things more Cardinal like. And I
Kyle Pierce:think maybe with a fixed grand grace or T square, aspect
Kyle Pierce:pattern like that. It's learning to be more fixed, learning to
Kyle Pierce:take a slower, steadier pace. I know once I start doing
Kyle Pierce:something I'm into, I want to do it for the next, you know, 20
Kyle Pierce:hours if I can. But obviously, that would be very
Kyle Pierce:destabilizing.
Tristan Paylor:And I think maybe one of the sort of key
Tristan Paylor:differences between a a cardinal or mutable Grand Cross and a
Tristan Paylor:fixed one is that, you know, you potentially have these competing
Tristan Paylor:interests. And in the case of, you know, Cardinal, you're all
Tristan Paylor:going to try to like start at once and sort of yell over top
Tristan Paylor:of each other. And with mutable, you're going to try to juggle
Tristan Paylor:everything at once. And with fixed, it's like everybody, you
Tristan Paylor:don't get started at all, because everyone is disagreeing
Tristan Paylor:about what to do. So you're kind of stuck in that stage of like,
Tristan Paylor:okay, well, who's going to win? And, you know, they can't decide
Tristan Paylor:like, what direction do we go in first because they all want to
Tristan Paylor:go into four different places, but I you know, and I think of
Tristan Paylor:like the cardinal version, it reminds me a little bit more of
Tristan Paylor:the picture on the two of Pentacles and a Rider Waite deck
Tristan Paylor:where you know, there's this like swirling see with all the
Tristan Paylor:waves behind the figure and the boats are kind of being tossed
Tristan Paylor:on the sea and the figure is juggling, you know, the two
Tristan Paylor:Pentacles and like dancing at the same time, where it's just
Tristan Paylor:like I'm doing everything at once and Meanwhile, you know is
Tristan Paylor:Fixed sign buddy is just like I haven't even started yet.
Kyle Pierce:I know which one I want to juggle right now. Yeah,
Kyle Pierce:it's been one for a long time. And then yeah, maybe addressed
Kyle Pierce:the other one later on. When I'm in the mood debts,
Tristan Paylor:maybe a bit more of a four of pentacles energy
Tristan Paylor:where the figure is just like sitting there hunched over, like
Tristan Paylor:hanging on to all the Pentacles. Like, I could do something with
Tristan Paylor:each of these four Pentacles. But I don't really know what to
Tristan Paylor:do first, so I'm just gonna hold. And meanwhile, the
Tristan Paylor:cardinal one is just like, I'm gonna use all four coins at once
Tristan Paylor:and just hope for the best.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah. Yeah, I think like, traditionally, a lot of
Kyle Pierce:like, the interpretive principles of astrology, it all
Kyle Pierce:kind of comes down to affinity between planets and what
Kyle Pierce:situation they're in. So I do find that, you know, a Grand
Kyle Pierce:Cross has more affinity to Cardinal signs, and even like
Kyle Pierce:Angular houses as well.
Tristan Paylor:Yeah, where they're action oriented houses,
Tristan Paylor:they're change oriented houses, they're focused on movement. And
Tristan Paylor:they're sort of they're the peak, right? Like, they're the
Tristan Paylor:culmination point. So there's that sense of like, elevated,
Tristan Paylor:the things that are in them are elevated, and there's also just
Tristan Paylor:like, an intense concentration of like, focused energy.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, some sounds like a busy life.
Tristan Paylor:It does. It does sound like a busy life. I do I
Tristan Paylor:do want to say that I know Jack personally. And she is just like
Tristan Paylor:an incredibly wise and supportive and generous and kind
Tristan Paylor:person. So if any listeners are looking at her chart, and
Tristan Paylor:they're curious to know what the chart of a incredibly decent
Tristan Paylor:human being looks like, you are looking at it. This is just the
Tristan Paylor:chart of a very Jupiter in the first Yeah, Jupiter in the first
Tristan Paylor:There you go. Just like friendly and generous and supportive.
Tristan Paylor:That's the Jupiter is that like, you know, person you look up to
Tristan Paylor:who's like always there for you kind of energy.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, it's, I like this chart. I don't think it's
Kyle Pierce:fun. I mean, yeah.
Tristan Paylor:It's just like, almost all the planets are in
Tristan Paylor:places, they're not supposed to be there. Like five of the seven
Tristan Paylor:traditional planets are either in detriment or fall and they're
Tristan Paylor:just like, you know, we're just gonna make the most of this
Tristan Paylor:somehow
Kyle Pierce:they got my like UFC reach that research is
Kyle Pierce:really got me rethinking how important dignity really is, I
Kyle Pierce:don't know, I don't know if like planet has to be in a good sign
Kyle Pierce:to function. Well. Think even, like, a lot of traditional
Kyle Pierce:thinking is more focused on house placement and angularity
Kyle Pierce:and all that. Yeah. But they definitely come with challenges,
Kyle Pierce:but said it before say it again. I think there's a lot of room in
Kyle Pierce:the world now for people acting. In non traditional ways, or
Tristan Paylor:maybe when it's green a little bit. Yeah, maybe
Tristan Paylor:that's I mean, you know, the world is still a pretty
Tristan Paylor:difficult place. But you know, if you think about, you know,
Tristan Paylor:like, where I'm sitting in Canada, in the 21st century,
Tristan Paylor:compared to you know, somebody living 1000 years ago, it's this
Tristan Paylor:sort of extreme interpretations of planets in different sorts of
Tristan Paylor:dignity, in traditional astrology and maybe make more
Tristan Paylor:sense in a society where it's like, most people are you know,
Tristan Paylor:they most most people in that society don't have any power
Tristan Paylor:whatsoever. Yeah, and they're just kind of at the whim of this
Tristan Paylor:system in a really sort of extreme way. You know, whereas,
Tristan Paylor:like, I'm somebody who doesn't have a lot of you know, sort of
Tristan Paylor:power and influence or whatever, but, like, there's more sort of
Tristan Paylor:room for me in in the world than there would have been, you know,
Tristan Paylor:1000 years ago.
Kyle Pierce:Maybe like, not at the world, in the world at large
Kyle Pierce:but like within your, you know, your community within your
Kyle Pierce:communities you're involved in Yeah,
Tristan Paylor:that's that's a good way to put it. But yeah, I
Tristan Paylor:guess it's like, there are spaces for me even though in a
Tristan Paylor:lot of ways, I am unconventional and sort of, you know, the the
Tristan Paylor:usual scripts don't tend to include me there are at least
Tristan Paylor:still spaces for me where I can, you know, have influence and
Tristan Paylor:like, have community and express myself and you know, there are
Tristan Paylor:or more opportunities for me to make creative use of sort of the
Tristan Paylor:unusual circumstances I've been dealt whereas, you know, in, in
Tristan Paylor:other times in human history, that would not have been the
Tristan Paylor:case.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, absolutely. I think that's, you know, it's
Kyle Pierce:like want to qualify everything that I say but I mean, the world
Kyle Pierce:now is not, you know, all roses and, you know, cherry orchards
Kyle Pierce:and stuff it but things have improved, I guess a lot for
Kyle Pierce:people who are operating outside of convention, right? Yeah.
Kyle Pierce:Doesn't make it easy. It just means that there are communities
Kyle Pierce:where it were, your voice can be heard, tend to be what I think
Kyle Pierce:about like with dignity a lot is the ruling planet being kind of
Kyle Pierce:the expectation that the planet is being held to some degree,
Kyle Pierce:whether internally or externally.
Tristan Paylor:I think a conversation about dignity might
Tristan Paylor:be a good segue into our next question.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, yeah.
Tristan Paylor:Our second question comes from Karolina who
Tristan Paylor:is a Karolina I'm realizing I don't know how to pronounce your
Tristan Paylor:name. I'm very sorry.
Kyle Pierce:Karolina Karolina same had
Tristan Paylor:him for now. Yeah, let's let's go with that
Tristan Paylor:and I apologize if that is incorrect. So Karolina wants to
Tristan Paylor:know, if she is doomed with so many fallen or debilitated
Tristan Paylor:planets and squares in her chart. She also wants to know
Tristan Paylor:how one should react to challenging aspects like squares
Tristan Paylor:and opposition's or difficult dignities and also how this
Tristan Paylor:relates to one's karma. Good question. And I've got
Tristan Paylor:Carolina's chart is in the show notes, if anyone wants to follow
Tristan Paylor:along with our interpretation and everything? Well,
Kyle Pierce:um, start off the answer is no. And, yeah, next
Kyle Pierce:question.
Tristan Paylor:The answer is you're, you're most certainly
Tristan Paylor:not doomed. I think I can speak for both Kyle and I, in saying
Tristan Paylor:that we do not belong to a school of thought that one's
Tristan Paylor:birth chart dictates their destiny. Or that, you know,
Tristan Paylor:traditionally difficult placements in a birth chart
Tristan Paylor:indicate any sort of doom and gloom, they can manifest in all
Tristan Paylor:kinds of ways. And sometimes they just manifest in really
Tristan Paylor:quirky, weird ways that, you know, are not necessarily, you
Tristan Paylor:know, evil, or, you know, anything sort of scary like
Tristan Paylor:that.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah. One, I mean, sometimes they, they do describe
Kyle Pierce:difficult situations or experiences, but, you know, we
Kyle Pierce:also have a lot of agency and how we respond to that, and I
Kyle Pierce:guess, my thoughts get drawn to the second part of the question,
Kyle Pierce:which is like, how to respond to your difficult placements in the
Kyle Pierce:chart when you see them. And that's mainly, I mean, I guess,
Kyle Pierce:it's good to get a sense of like, what the traditional
Kyle Pierce:interpretations are what, you know, maybe two, astrologers
Kyle Pierce:have to say about it. But I find it personally, like valuable to,
Kyle Pierce:you know, they are difficult placements, like how they might
Kyle Pierce:have already played out in your life, and often indicate just
Kyle Pierce:stuff that maybe already happened, or maybe not even
Kyle Pierce:stuff that happened, just the way you feel about certain
Kyle Pierce:things. And, um, sort of like a degree of maybe even like,
Kyle Pierce:accepting that, like, okay, that that happened, this or that
Kyle Pierce:happened. But in many cases, you know, you might already be doing
Kyle Pierce:things that like, manage that, you know, or you may already be
Kyle Pierce:working with that in a much more constructive way. Like myself
Kyle Pierce:seeing some of my more difficult placements and accepting the
Kyle Pierce:negative ways that maybe they have played out, um, sort of
Kyle Pierce:like a good ended up being like constructive in the sense of
Kyle Pierce:like, okay, I see, you know, that happened, all right. I
Kyle Pierce:can't change you know, what's already happened, but I can
Kyle Pierce:maybe change or maybe already have changed in many ways, how I
Kyle Pierce:react to it, or how I you know, I'm already or can in the
Kyle Pierce:future. Work with that like a more constructive way or a more
Kyle Pierce:positive way and often even just like a difficult placement can
Kyle Pierce:describe a lot of different things and not all of them are
Kyle Pierce:difficult, you know?
Tristan Paylor:And some some things that are challenging or
Tristan Paylor:or difficult are enjoyable, you know, depending on your
Tristan Paylor:temperament. And, you know, looking at curliness chart here,
Tristan Paylor:I see that the sun is in areas. So, you know, and Mars is
Tristan Paylor:conjunct the ascendant in the first house, and, you know,
Tristan Paylor:those are indications of being someone who doesn't necessarily
Tristan Paylor:shy away from challenge. So, you know, not everybody wants the
Tristan Paylor:kind of life where everything just goes smoothly, and they're
Tristan Paylor:never challenged. Like, that's very boring. You know, sometimes
Tristan Paylor:being unsatisfied in a subject of study or at a job or in a
Tristan Paylor:relationship can be because it's too boring, there's just there's
Tristan Paylor:nothing about it, that kind of forces you to change or grow in
Tristan Paylor:any way. And, you know, people have different temperaments
Tristan Paylor:where that is concerned. Some people would prefer life to be a
Tristan Paylor:little bit of an adventure. And so, you know, difficult or
Tristan Paylor:challenging situations, you know, depending on the kind of
Tristan Paylor:situations you're talking about, and what sort of temperament you
Tristan Paylor:have are not necessarily bad. I also think when, because you,
Tristan Paylor:Karolina mentioned, as well, you know, starting to study a little
Tristan Paylor:bit more Hellenistic astrology. And one thing that Chris
Tristan Paylor:Brennan, who I learned Hellenistic astrology from says,
Tristan Paylor:quite a lot, I think, you know, he repeats on the astrology
Tristan Paylor:podcast fairly often. And I'm glad he repeats it is, you know,
Tristan Paylor:the delineations that you read in traditional texts for
Tristan Paylor:placements are going to be very extreme. Because when you're
Tristan Paylor:trying to teach somebody, the nature of these symbols, it's
Tristan Paylor:more extreme situations are more memorable. And, and tell you
Tristan Paylor:more about sort of, like, where are what are these symbols
Tristan Paylor:about? And where are their limits? For most people, you
Tristan Paylor:know, that placement is not going to manifest as the worst
Tristan Paylor:case scenario. But you know, the best case scenario or the worst
Tristan Paylor:case scenario, those are really valuable teaching tools. It's
Tristan Paylor:like, you know, using case studies, right, like using
Tristan Paylor:remarkable case studies, to learn about people or
Tristan Paylor:situations, those case studies don't necessarily generalize
Tristan Paylor:well, to the whole population. But nonetheless, they they do
Tristan Paylor:still teach you a lot about certain things by showing you
Tristan Paylor:really unusual or extreme circumstances. Yeah. And I think
Tristan Paylor:that's, you know, something to keep in mind when you're reading
Tristan Paylor:those traditional interpretations is that of
Tristan Paylor:course, they're extreme, because that's what you're going to
Tristan Paylor:remember. And that's what's going to help you learn. But
Tristan Paylor:most of the time, that's not actually you know, realistically
Tristan Paylor:what goes on in the average person's life.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, absolutely. True. Do you mind if I just
Kyle Pierce:described the chart a little bit for listeners? Yeah, go for it
Kyle Pierce:and get a sense of what's going on. Because it's actually funny
Kyle Pierce:that I'm here Lena and jet were born within two months of each
Kyle Pierce:other. But be within Yeah, think too much of each other actually.
Kyle Pierce:Very similar charts and there's a similar Grand Cross going on
Kyle Pierce:in Carolyn's chart, so
Tristan Paylor:in the angular houses and no
Kyle Pierce:less, so you guys should be friends.
Tristan Paylor:Yes, become friends.
Kyle Pierce:Also, Karolina was born with cancer rising with
Kyle Pierce:Mars conjunct the ascendant. 20 degrees in cancer and the sun in
Kyle Pierce:Aries in the 10th house, and the Moon in Libra in the fourth
Kyle Pierce:house. Jupiter is also in the fourth house in Libra. Venus is
Kyle Pierce:in Aries in in Libra, and I'm
Tristan Paylor:sorry Venus is in
Kyle Pierce:because it's an Aries and Libra
Tristan Paylor:in Aries in the 10th house
Kyle Pierce:Aries in the 10th house. Yes. And Mars is opposing
Kyle Pierce:Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn in the seventh. Mercury is in
Kyle Pierce:Pisces in the ninth house and Saturn is in Aquarius in the
Kyle Pierce:eighth house. So happy Saturn Return Karolina
Tristan Paylor:oh yeah happy Saturn Return jet and Karolina
Tristan Paylor:very excited. Yeah,
Kyle Pierce:yeah, just getting the basis of the chart so
Kyle Pierce:similar themes going on, but I'm kinda going back to what you
Kyle Pierce:were saying about getting into Hellenistic astrology is like
Kyle Pierce:yeah, the initial reaction to like the interpretations and
Kyle Pierce:everything. They are very extreme. But I guess also thing
Kyle Pierce:to keep in mind And the deeper you get into it, there's like a
Kyle Pierce:lot of other factors always at play to consider as well.
Tristan Paylor:And there are a lot of mitigating factors in
Tristan Paylor:this chart as well. Even though you know, you do have a bunch of
Tristan Paylor:planets that are not traditionally dignified like
Tristan Paylor:Mercury's in Pisces, Venus is an Aries. Mars is in cancer right
Tristan Paylor:on the ascendant. So those three planets, you know, all stand out
Tristan Paylor:as being, you know, in signs that are a little awkward for
Tristan Paylor:them. And also, you know, being pretty visible, you know, Venus
Tristan Paylor:is up in the 10th. And Mars is extremely Angular right on the
Tristan Paylor:ascendant. So, you know, they're very prominent planets in the
Tristan Paylor:chart as well.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah. Why now, that is the first thing when we see a
Kyle Pierce:planet like right on the ascendant, your eye kind of
Kyle Pierce:immediately gets drawn to that. And first thing I thought even
Kyle Pierce:just seeing that was mirrored with like Michael Phelps, a
Kyle Pierce:Olympic, if he does it professionally anymore, but he
Kyle Pierce:was a big Olympic swimmer to Mars and cancer swimming, like,
Kyle Pierce:actually, I would say, is great remediation for Mars and cancer,
Kyle Pierce:if you ever want to take up swimming, or maybe you do
Kyle Pierce:already. But Michael Phelps actually did an interesting
Kyle Pierce:documentary not that long ago about that's been a while since
Kyle Pierce:I've watched it, but it was about, like, the unhealthy
Kyle Pierce:patterns that athletes get into, like the obsession to win. And,
Kyle Pierce:you know, particularly like I think, was about Olympic
Kyle Pierce:athletes, and how they would spend four years training for
Kyle Pierce:the Olympics. And then you know, whether they won or not, you
Kyle Pierce:know, the end of the day after that, they almost almost say
Kyle Pierce:universally, but a majority of them fell into like, huge deep
Kyle Pierce:depressions. And it's kind of like a huge come down, and then
Kyle Pierce:having to figure out like what to do with your life after,
Kyle Pierce:after that, but I just thought that was an interesting
Kyle Pierce:manifestation of that for like a fallen Mars and in the first
Kyle Pierce:house for like an athlete who ends up succeeding quite
Kyle Pierce:prominently as an athlete, champion swimmer. But then kind
Kyle Pierce:of challenging the culture around athleticism, and kind of
Kyle Pierce:like exploring the drawbacks and dark side of the way that
Kyle Pierce:athletes themselves approach athletics in the way we expect
Kyle Pierce:from athletes.
Tristan Paylor:Mm hmm. Yeah, and I think, you know, looking
Tristan Paylor:at planets in fall, you know, there's that symbolism of sort
Tristan Paylor:of falling from a high place or a high point. And you know,
Tristan Paylor:sometimes you have to start out or get to the high place first
Tristan Paylor:in order to have that experience of falling. And I think, you
Tristan Paylor:know, you and I have discussed this more and more recently, how
Tristan Paylor:exultation and fall really, you know, it is an axis and I think
Tristan Paylor:when you have a planet, either an exultation or fall in your
Tristan Paylor:chart anywhere, it draws attention, not only to that
Tristan Paylor:planet, but to the whole axis it's on and just the whole
Tristan Paylor:nature of what is it to be sort of elevated, and what is it to
Tristan Paylor:be brought low, and that experience or sort of a deeper
Tristan Paylor:understanding of that dynamic, and how it plays out in human
Tristan Paylor:culture, I think is part of that it doesn't mean that like, you
Tristan Paylor:know, if a planet is in fall, that it's always you know,
Tristan Paylor:somewhere, you know, in the ditch, like, it's, it's a planet
Tristan Paylor:that maybe through its experiences, has a recognition
Tristan Paylor:of the extremes between, you know, being high up on a throne
Tristan Paylor:versus being in the ditch, and, you know, somebody like a
Tristan Paylor:professional athlete, you know, is a good example of that, were,
Tristan Paylor:being a professional athlete sort of forces you to extremes
Tristan Paylor:in your pursuit of your goal. And yet, your goals are
Tristan Paylor:necessarily limited by human physiology. And at some point,
Tristan Paylor:you're not going to be able to compete at that level anymore.
Tristan Paylor:And you're gonna have to come to terms with that and find a way
Tristan Paylor:to, you know, build your identity around you know, and a
Tristan Paylor:new way of living you know, if your whole identity was kind of
Tristan Paylor:built around, being the best athlete in the world that's not
Tristan Paylor:sustainable. So, you know, how do you still have like a
Tristan Paylor:positive self concept when you're no longer able to compete
Tristan Paylor:at the level you once were?
Kyle Pierce:Yeah. We have been talking a lot about that lately.
Kyle Pierce:And since the last episode, my Mars research on the UFC
Kyle Pierce:fighters got like way deeper. But this is making me think
Kyle Pierce:about that. I'm still working on writing the article. I can
Kyle Pierce:barely talk. So you know, imagine how long it takes me to
Kyle Pierce:write things. The but Mars and cancer and Mars and Capricorn
Kyle Pierce:are like the two most common Mars signs of the UFC fighters
Kyle Pierce:think Mars and cancer did end up. Think of a second I think
Kyle Pierce:there's one less Mars in Cancer than one ours in Capricorn, but
Kyle Pierce:But yeah, pretty much highlights that access, the fall,
Kyle Pierce:exultation access. And I think that like planets and fall and
Kyle Pierce:planets and exultation can kind of both end up in the same
Kyle Pierce:places, you know either starting from I believe and going to
Kyle Pierce:localize or going to a place from a high place or back and
Kyle Pierce:forth and between or just understanding all the dynamics
Kyle Pierce:of that, you know, so, I mean, I wouldn't get too down on on
Kyle Pierce:balls, and actually, it's why it's taking me so long to write
Kyle Pierce:because I feel like I grok something internally about about
Kyle Pierce:falls that I want to express, but it's really hard, hard to
Kyle Pierce:express or put in a way that I want to, but you know, you're in
Kyle Pierce:good company. I am a, you know, a cancer rising and my first
Kyle Pierce:house is ruled by a fallen Moon in Scorpio. Right? So I actually
Kyle Pierce:had similar reactions to you, when I started getting into
Kyle Pierce:Hellenistic astrology that I had that very same question of, Am I
Kyle Pierce:doomed? You know, because of this, this fallen planet? But
Kyle Pierce:just from talking to clients and talking to people about the
Kyle Pierce:charts and getting deeper into astrology, yeah, very
Kyle Pierce:definitively, now.
Tristan Paylor:Yeah, I think planets and fall can be also
Tristan Paylor:about, you know, climbing your way out of a fallen place. Or
Tristan Paylor:can be, you know, starting in a place, which, I mean, I relate
Tristan Paylor:to that kind of narrative as somebody who also has the Moon
Tristan Paylor:in Scorpio ruling my ascendant with a day chart, so we both got
Tristan Paylor:an out of sect, fallen planet, or ascendant.
Kyle Pierce:I'm fascinated by like Mars and cancer, because
Kyle Pierce:yeah, like the complementary other, other half or whatever.
Tristan Paylor:Yeah, I'm obsessed with Mars and cancers.
Tristan Paylor:It's like our mutual reception.
Kyle Pierce:I know a ton of them a bunch of my family. And
Kyle Pierce:yeah, I mean, I think that the finding a way out of a difficult
Kyle Pierce:situation or, but also, like fall fallen plants is that I was
Kyle Pierce:at an improv show not that long ago. And it occurred to me that
Kyle Pierce:who, you know, who tends to get into something like improv, it's
Kyle Pierce:usually people who are naturally inclined towards comedy, or
Kyle Pierce:being on a stage or something like improv, but often a lot of
Kyle Pierce:my partner is taking improv classes, a lot of them are
Kyle Pierce:people who have who actually really, really struggle in those
Kyle Pierce:areas. And they take those classes to, to, you know, get
Kyle Pierce:better at socializing and feeling more comfortable in
Kyle Pierce:their own skin or just saying what's on their mind. And often,
Kyle Pierce:it's those people who kind of have to build, say, planetary
Kyle Pierce:nature of some kind, but kind of like starting from the bottom
Kyle Pierce:and having to work, like build your way up in a position to
Kyle Pierce:know more about every detail of how, how to moon, and maybe in
Kyle Pierce:our case, or how to Mars. In your case. Yeah, I thought a
Kyle Pierce:Mercury.
Tristan Paylor:Yeah, I think that's a really, really good
Tristan Paylor:point that's making me think of when I was younger. I briefly
Tristan Paylor:took singing lessons. And, you know, I was really hesitant to
Tristan Paylor:do it at first because I'm not a good singer. And, you know, but
Tristan Paylor:people around me were making the point that well, that's what
Tristan Paylor:singing lessons are for, like, you don't start out good. Like,
Tristan Paylor:you know, people who just start out with a natural talent for
Tristan Paylor:singing don't, you know, necessarily need singing
Tristan Paylor:lessons, it's, you know, those of us who don't have an innate
Tristan Paylor:talent for us, you know, we're kind of starting from the bottom
Tristan Paylor:and working our way up. And life requires us to challenge
Tristan Paylor:ourselves in in these ways, we're not, you know, none of us
Tristan Paylor:are sort of like immortal gods who are just naturally gifted
Tristan Paylor:with every possible thing we could want or needs to do under
Tristan Paylor:the sun, like at some point, all of us in life are going to come
Tristan Paylor:up against a thing that you know, we might innately struggle
Tristan Paylor:with and going you know, we've got to go to our singing lessons
Tristan Paylor:in order to to master that thing and it doesn't mean that you
Tristan Paylor:can't master that thing. You still can you just have to go
Tristan Paylor:through the process of kind of learning from the ground up in
Tristan Paylor:order to master it.
Kyle Pierce:Well, I think that's um, thing with like a
Kyle Pierce:fall or detriment is that because, you know, you
Kyle Pierce:experience like the difficulty of that, or like the challenge
Kyle Pierce:of that planet, your attention is immediately drawn toward
Kyle Pierce:like, Okay, how do I get better at this? Yeah. And can result in
Kyle Pierce:people being excessively good at Something though they may have a
Kyle Pierce:hard time recognizing it can get that with expectations too,
Kyle Pierce:where the standards are so high internally that they become like
Kyle Pierce:disillusioned
Tristan Paylor:as someone with two exalted planets in my chart,
Tristan Paylor:one of which, you know, as I mentioned is the sun in Aries,
Tristan Paylor:like like you Karolina, I often find, you know, that manifests a
Tristan Paylor:little bit more as perfectionism in a way, because it's like, the
Tristan Paylor:standard I've set for myself, and that area of life is the
Tristan Paylor:best, I cannot do less than that, which is totally
Tristan Paylor:unrealistic, right? And have all
Kyle Pierce:the exalted planets in the world and you're still
Kyle Pierce:not getting
Tristan Paylor:perfection? No, no, nobody's nobody's going to
Tristan Paylor:even if you know, every planet is exalted in their chart. And
Tristan Paylor:everyone with exalted planets, I think, still has to calibrate
Tristan Paylor:that you know what that person? That's, that's the thing, like,
Tristan Paylor:I
Kyle Pierce:think we're perfect if they did accomplish it, I
Kyle Pierce:don't
Tristan Paylor:know, you and you and you wouldn't be able to
Tristan Paylor:relate? Yeah, you wouldn't be able to relate to themselves.
Tristan Paylor:So, you know, no one wants people people want to be around
Tristan Paylor:fallen and debilitated planets, because they can relate, you
Tristan Paylor:know, it's like, when I when I hear, you know, the
Tristan Paylor:interpretations of a planet and it's fall or detriment. I'm
Tristan Paylor:like, I sympathize with this protagonist, you know, and I,
Tristan Paylor:when I'm reading a client chart, and their ascendant ruler is
Tristan Paylor:like, a debilitated planet in some way. I'm just like, this is
Tristan Paylor:the hero I root for in a story. This is I'm invested in the
Tristan Paylor:outcome of this protagonist story. And, you know, there's an
Tristan Paylor:arc to every story too, right. So if you know you're starting
Tristan Paylor:from that fallen, or exiled position, you know, in a
Tristan Paylor:narrative format, your arc is going to take you away from that
Tristan Paylor:position, because you always end up somewhere different than
Tristan Paylor:where you started. Yeah. I think Mercury in pisces really
Tristan Paylor:interests me because I think it's a really good from my
Tristan Paylor:personal experience is a really good example of what you were
Tristan Paylor:just talking about Kyle with, you know, the way that
Tristan Paylor:debilitated planets tend to draw a lot of attention and a lot of
Tristan Paylor:energy, because they're noticeable, right? Like they
Tristan Paylor:stand out. And so they demand a lot of energy and care. And
Tristan Paylor:mercury, and Pisces is a mercury that I meet a lot. Both when I
Tristan Paylor:look up charts of, you know, public figures I'm interested in
Tristan Paylor:and in my personal life and the people I encounter and I have
Tristan Paylor:yet to meet, a encounter a mercury and Pisces person who's
Tristan Paylor:like, the traditional just like, you know, tripping over their
Tristan Paylor:words, and just like can't Mercury like most of the mercury
Tristan Paylor:and Pisces, people I've encountered are very eloquent
Tristan Paylor:and often very talented writers and very creative thinkers, and
Tristan Paylor:very good speakers. And, you know, often there is like, a
Tristan Paylor:part of their story where, you know, they felt discouraged at
Tristan Paylor:some point or the, you know, the way they learn or think is
Tristan Paylor:somehow different, or like unconventional or unusual. And
Tristan Paylor:so there were certain obstacles that they encountered, because
Tristan Paylor:of the ways in which they're thinking or speaking or learning
Tristan Paylor:style were unusual. But, you know, it's like, so many of the
Tristan Paylor:best writers and public speakers have Mercury in pisces, it's
Tristan Paylor:just like, all that attention, and work being poured into a
Tristan Paylor:particular area of life does potentially lead to mastery,
Tristan Paylor:even if it's challenging on on the way. You know, I can think
Tristan Paylor:of somebody I know with mercury and Pisces, you know, who's, who
Tristan Paylor:often feels like, they're not a great speaker, like, that's sort
Tristan Paylor:of their subjective experience that they're like, I don't
Tristan Paylor:really feel like I communicate well, but everyone else around
Tristan Paylor:them, it's like you're one of the best communicators. I know.
Tristan Paylor:So yeah, that can be another manifestation of these
Tristan Paylor:placements to where it's like, you're not actually bad at
Tristan Paylor:something, but you know, maybe you're holding yourself to an
Tristan Paylor:unrealistic standard, or you had an experience in your life,
Tristan Paylor:which may be totally real invalid, that made you feel
Tristan Paylor:inadequate, even though you're not actually be, you know, maybe
Tristan Paylor:some somebody, you know, said the wrong thing, or you were,
Tristan Paylor:you know, in a context where, you know, the way that you
Tristan Paylor:happen to think was just not the mainstream and so you've
Tristan Paylor:developed a sort of belief about yourself that you're inadequate,
Tristan Paylor:even though it's not true.
Kyle Pierce:Yet, that's a great point because, um, the more I
Kyle Pierce:talk to people about their charts, that that ends up being
Kyle Pierce:it's maybe your experience of that planet that is maybe
Kyle Pierce:informed by what could have been just like a one time incident
Kyle Pierce:early on, when it was very formative, that you know, like
Kyle Pierce:Mercury in pisces, like you weren't heard or weren't
Kyle Pierce:listened to, or people didn't want to pay attention to you or
Kyle Pierce:or that you weren't good at talking, or maybe you did
Kyle Pierce:struggle with, with speaking in some way. Like you're saying,
Kyle Pierce:you're gonna put a lot of energy in finding a way to either
Kyle Pierce:improve that or find an alternative way of expressing
Kyle Pierce:it. A lot of writers, you know, maybe they struggle with
Kyle Pierce:intrapersonal talking or interpersonal communication
Kyle Pierce:sometimes, and they maybe go to writing where they can, like,
Kyle Pierce:take their time to craft their sentences in a way that they
Kyle Pierce:can't, you know, when they're, in the moment, you know,
Kyle Pierce:speaking to somebody in front of them. So just difficulty place
Kyle Pierce:planet, it's like having to master a dichotomy of some kind,
Kyle Pierce:or find a way to integrate, you know, two seemingly disparate
Kyle Pierce:principles. Find a solution to something and think that that is
Kyle Pierce:what you know, ends up resulting a lot of like, creative
Kyle Pierce:solutions.
Tristan Paylor:Oh, yeah, like creativity is, is my number one
Tristan Paylor:key word for planets and fallen detriment. And the more of them
Tristan Paylor:you have, you know, the greater the creative potential in the
Tristan Paylor:chart, because, you know, creativity comes from, you know,
Tristan Paylor:having to come up with novel solutions to problems. Yeah.
Tristan Paylor:And, you know, having to work in environments where, you know,
Tristan Paylor:the usual ways of doing things don't work. I think with with
Tristan Paylor:planets in fall and detriment as well, they can symbolize
Tristan Paylor:difficulty finding the right context to be expressed in now,
Tristan Paylor:I've been, you know, thinking about Mars and cancer, right on
Tristan Paylor:the ascendant there. And how, you know, Mars in particular,
Tristan Paylor:is, as a planet, regardless of what sign it's in. Its energy
Tristan Paylor:isn't appropriate. In every circumstance, it's a really good
Tristan Paylor:example of a planet that is just not always the appropriate
Tristan Paylor:response. So you know, I think of Mars in detriment or fall,
Tristan Paylor:and I reminded of that moment in The Simpsons, there's that
Tristan Paylor:episode of The Simpsons where Homer gets a gun. And there's
Tristan Paylor:that moment where he says, Watch me turn on the TV, and he just
Tristan Paylor:like, shoots the TV on you, Marie turns off the lights by
Tristan Paylor:shooting off the light bulbs, and it's just like not now Mars,
Tristan Paylor:like, this isn't the right context for this sort of
Tristan Paylor:behavior. There is, you know, possibly a context for this kind
Tristan Paylor:of behavior, but it is not here. And there aren't a lot of
Tristan Paylor:contexts where that kind of energy is actually appropriate.
Tristan Paylor:And I think Mars in fall or detriment might struggle with
Tristan Paylor:that a little bit where it's like, Mars in Cancer has
Tristan Paylor:something very valuable to offer. But what it has to offer
Tristan Paylor:is like maybe a little niche in a way, like it needs to find an
Tristan Paylor:appropriate venue, where it kind of fits the situation and it may
Tristan Paylor:be an experience of you know, just having, you know, a
Tristan Paylor:challenge as far as as finding a place where you know, your
Tristan Paylor:particular talents fit or service. Or like having to be
Tristan Paylor:creative. Another another Mars in Cancer image I always have is
Tristan Paylor:the droid IG 11 in the Mandalorian, who starts off as
Tristan Paylor:an assassin droid. Oh, I don't want to I don't want to spoil it
Tristan Paylor:for you. But he starts off as an assassin droid. And at some
Tristan Paylor:point over the course of the show, he's reprogrammed into a
Tristan Paylor:nanny droid. So you know, he's still an assassin, like, he's
Tristan Paylor:still a total badass. But his motives have been changed to you
Tristan Paylor:know, protecting a baby, instead of, you know, working for, you
Tristan Paylor:know, whoever was hiring him to do whatever terrible job. So
Tristan Paylor:it's like that, to me. That's Mars in Cancer, where it's like,
Tristan Paylor:how does Mars Express Mars? In the context of cancer, that's
Tristan Paylor:going to be tricky to figure out how to do that in a way that is
Tristan Paylor:constructive. But it can be done. It just requires a little
Tristan Paylor:bit of creative thinking to figure out, you know, how do we
Tristan Paylor:make this work in this context?
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, absolutely. I do want to end up talking about
Kyle Pierce:like the actually, technically very nice things that are
Kyle Pierce:happening in your chart.
Tristan Paylor:Yes, there are a lot of them. Yeah, a lot of nice
Tristan Paylor:things in this chart.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah. Part of that involves that. You know, Mars
Kyle Pierce:has a lot of reception with planets in signs that Mars is
Kyle Pierce:comfortable in. I mean, there's kind of like there's like
Kyle Pierce:connections to Mars, Mars, having outlets or Mars having
Kyle Pierce:training or something on Mars having a I like outlets
Kyle Pierce:actually. And I want to go back into my data but one of my
Kyle Pierce:favorite UFC fighter charts was was like a Mars in Cancer with
Kyle Pierce:Mars opposing Uranus in Capricorn, which is science,
Kyle Pierce:exultation, it was a trine Pluto. And I believe Venus was
Kyle Pierce:an Aries as well. Just like giving like Mars, like all the
Kyle Pierce:Mars tools, to kind of like what you were saying, like, it's like
Kyle Pierce:finding a way to express that, appropriately, is often very
Kyle Pierce:hard, usually Mars and cancer. Like, the feelings get hurt very
Kyle Pierce:often, easily. There's a sensitivity there. And Mars is
Kyle Pierce:not, you know, used to giving a, an F about what other people
Kyle Pierce:think. And it just wants to do its thing. It's its job done.
Kyle Pierce:accomplish its mission.
Tristan Paylor:You know, doing it's not, you know, I don't have
Tristan Paylor:time to worry about how other people are going to react to
Tristan Paylor:this. And so, you know, in labor or cancer, those are signs
Tristan Paylor:where, you know, you have to consider what other people might
Tristan Paylor:think or what other people might feel before you act. And Mars is
Tristan Paylor:not, that's not what comes naturally to Mars at all.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah. And so, I mean, the reactions can be
Kyle Pierce:extreme in different directions, you know, so maybe you'd have
Kyle Pierce:to, like talk to somebody, you know, with any given placement,
Kyle Pierce:but particularly, like, more extreme placements like that, to
Kyle Pierce:see what their particular experiences with it. But, um,
Kyle Pierce:that's my thought. My thought, you know, I don't have a follow
Kyle Pierce:on Mercury, but I feel like it is something different was on
Kyle Pierce:that excess.
Tristan Paylor:And I guess, you know, that's sometimes the
Tristan Paylor:advantage there is that if, if Mercury has fallen, you're more
Tristan Paylor:inclined to want to do something about it.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, I mean, I want to do something about it,
Kyle Pierce:but it's almost like planets in detriment or in fall. It's like
Kyle Pierce:they have very obvious sightlines to, to where they do
Kyle Pierce:well, yeah. No. Oh, I can see the place that that I do. Well,
Kyle Pierce:it's right there across the golf, you know, and I want to
Kyle Pierce:traverse that and get there. But when, you know, I make a paragon
Kyle Pierce:grim planet, maybe worse, I don't know. Like, just kind of
Kyle Pierce:like, I just don't, I don't know what the solution is. I don't
Kyle Pierce:know what the,
Tristan Paylor:like, I can't see where I'm supposed to be or
Tristan Paylor:like, Where would be a good place for me to go? Yeah, no
Tristan Paylor:idea. I do feel like, you know, to jump into some of the, the
Tristan Paylor:more traditionally nice things in this chart. Mars is being
Tristan Paylor:bonafide by Venus. Venus is in Aries in the 10th house. And
Tristan Paylor:Mars is in cancer in the first so Venus is earlier in zodiacal
Tristan Paylor:order and squaring Mars, which is a good thing for Mars. And
Tristan Paylor:they are both sect mates, you know, they're both night
Tristan Paylor:planets. So you know, it's kind of nice that Mars is getting a
Tristan Paylor:boost from its sect mate. And of course, Venus is in Aries Mars's
Tristan Paylor:sign. So they're, you know, there's some some sympathy and
Tristan Paylor:understanding there. So that is actually like a really cool
Tristan Paylor:relationship that, you know, potentially softens the harder
Tristan Paylor:edges of Mars. And because you know, Venus is in Aries, like
Tristan Paylor:Venus is in Mars is domicile. So you know, Venus in a way can
Tristan Paylor:kind of, you know, if Mars is missing stuff at home, like man,
Tristan Paylor:in order to do my job, I really need this thing. But I don't
Tristan Paylor:have it here because I'm in this weird place in cancer where
Tristan Paylor:nothing makes sense to me. And Venus is like, well, I've got
Tristan Paylor:you I can you know, I'm in your house right now. Let me know
Tristan Paylor:what you need. And Venus will send what Mars Needs, you know,
Tristan Paylor:to make things work in cancer. So that that aspect really,
Tristan Paylor:really changes the interpretation of Mars and
Tristan Paylor:cancer on the ascendant were like, yeah, it's a little
Tristan Paylor:unusual. It's a little challenging, but Mars is
Tristan Paylor:getting, you know, really valuable support from back at
Tristan Paylor:home.
Kyle Pierce:I think one thing that I like, and this may seem
Kyle Pierce:counterintuitive at first, but Venus is retrograde in Carolyn's
Kyle Pierce:chart and what I actually like about that, is that it I find it
Kyle Pierce:I think that it increases the affinity between Venus and Mars.
Kyle Pierce:Not that Venus turns into Mars when it's retrograde. But Venus
Kyle Pierce:is it's about like champ challenging consensus to some
Kyle Pierce:degree kind of going against consensus for the sake of
Kyle Pierce:creating better you know, more unity and a sense of so like,
Kyle Pierce:it's a much more going against the grain sort of Venus. I like
Kyle Pierce:to think of like people with like, very offbeat, eccentric
Kyle Pierce:fashion style. Think I've seen Venus retrograde is in fashion
Kyle Pierce:designers. But as opposed to like unifying and like blending
Kyle Pierce:in and being the same as everyone else, Venus retrograde
Kyle Pierce:just like like wants to create new different using the fashion
Kyle Pierce:analogy, like a new fashion new style, you know, that challenges
Kyle Pierce:and goes against what has already existed. Venus is often
Kyle Pierce:potentially very creative
Tristan Paylor:when it's retrograde. I really like that,
Kyle Pierce:such as trying to create peace and harmony and you
Kyle Pierce:know, make things fit nicely together. It's like, let's,
Kyle Pierce:let's try that, you know, that leopard skin? That leopard print
Kyle Pierce:jacket with the my tie dye leggings. See how that goes? Oh,
Kyle Pierce:you don't like it? Well, I like it. And in 10 years, it's gonna
Kyle Pierce:be what's cool. It's gonna be what's in because I'm concerned.
Kyle Pierce:So
Tristan Paylor:I love the idea of Venus retrograde connecting
Tristan Paylor:with fashion design, because a big part of fashion is recycling
Tristan Paylor:old fashions like at some point, yeah, whatever was cool a few
Tristan Paylor:decades later becomes retro, and like there's a new spin on it.
Tristan Paylor:And that is now what is cool. So I feel like there's a little bit
Tristan Paylor:of that reaching back into the past to come up with something
Tristan Paylor:new. That Venus retrograde in Aries might you know, because
Tristan Paylor:Venus in a cardinal sign and you know, forward thinking sign like
Tristan Paylor:Aries is going to want to do something that's you know, never
Tristan Paylor:been seen before set a trend or whatever and a retrograde is
Tristan Paylor:gonna look back into the past and look at like, Okay, what
Tristan Paylor:worked in the past what was cool then, and how can I kind of
Tristan Paylor:remix this for the present era?
Kyle Pierce:Again, Venus has that sorry.
Tristan Paylor:Oh, just you got me thinking about, you know,
Tristan Paylor:Venus's sort of primary function is to unify and create peace.
Tristan Paylor:And I actually gave a sermon about this subject once. You
Tristan Paylor:know, I used to I used to do a little bit of work in church
Tristan Paylor:ministry and a past life you know, before I became a heathen
Tristan Paylor:to heretic whatever, I
Kyle Pierce:would love to hear you give a sermon epic we should
Kyle Pierce:have a segment of the show where interesting gives a sermon,
Kyle Pierce:astrology sermon.
Tristan Paylor:Oh, maybe that's I mean, I think astrology has
Tristan Paylor:become sort of that outlet for me. Because you know, I'm not
Tristan Paylor:I'm no longer Christian and no longer involved in the church.
Tristan Paylor:But a lot of the work I did for the church was very fulfilling
Tristan Paylor:and so astrology lets me kind of do some of that
Kyle Pierce:stuff is gonna change the way I listen to you.
Tristan Paylor:Be like, listening to the preacher.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, I'm gonna, nobody will be able to see me
Kyle Pierce:but just gonna have my hands raised. My eyes closed. Me
Kyle Pierce:looking up at the sky. Interesting talk because
Kyle Pierce:Christian is connecting me with the Lord.
Tristan Paylor:Now I'm now in connecting people with the
Tristan Paylor:stars, I guess in an animistic sense instead of it's you know,
Tristan Paylor:I relevant to me. Yeah. So I gave are actually up there. They
Tristan Paylor:I know you can actually see them. It's nice. It's yeah, it's
Tristan Paylor:like that George Carlin bit about sun worship, you know, you
Tristan Paylor:can actually see the sun. Yeah, actually, like, you can
Tristan Paylor:literally prove that it, you know, allows life on Earth. So
Tristan Paylor:it makes sense to worship. Sorry, I don't I don't want to
Tristan Paylor:offend any listeners of various religious persuasions. But it's
Tristan Paylor:I know it's true if you if the trouble right with religion is
Tristan Paylor:that whatever your position is, it contradicts somebody else's
Tristan Paylor:position. And so then what do you do? Anyway, I
Kyle Pierce:gave make fun of it as much as I do.
Tristan Paylor:I, you know, and I still like I actually had a
Tristan Paylor:really good time with the church, I was involved in really
Tristan Paylor:progressive, rebellious in a good way kinds of churches. So
Tristan Paylor:you know, I still really appreciate that time. But
Tristan Paylor:anyway, I gave a sermon about that. There's a famous passage
Tristan Paylor:in the Gospels. That, you know, is very controversial, where
Tristan Paylor:Jesus says, Do you think I came on I came to earth, to create
Tristan Paylor:peace, I didn't come to bring peace but a sword. Essentially,
Tristan Paylor:like I've come to bring strife and I gave a whole sermon about
Tristan Paylor:the concept of, of peace and how there is a difference between
Tristan Paylor:there's sort of two different kinds of peace. You know,
Tristan Paylor:there's the peace that comes as the result of ignoring our
Tristan Paylor:problems and ignoring injustices and just refusing to rock the
Tristan Paylor:boat. You know, when you know something is wrong. You just
Tristan Paylor:don't you just tow the party line, you don't do anything
Tristan Paylor:about it, and the kind of peace that comes from actually having
Tristan Paylor:justice and, you know, in order to get that Peace, you actually
Tristan Paylor:have to create a disturbance first. And the example that I
Tristan Paylor:used in my sermon was, so I'm also a big hockey fan. And
Tristan Paylor:several years ago, Braden Holtby. One, the Stanley Cup
Tristan Paylor:with the Washington Capitals. And Trump was president at the
Tristan Paylor:time. And it is a tradition for Stanley Cup winning hockey teams
Tristan Paylor:to visit the White House and visit the president. And Braden
Tristan Paylor:Holtby was the goalie for the Washington Capitals, and he
Tristan Paylor:refused to go. And this was a big deal, because most of the
Tristan Paylor:teams still went, a couple of players on the team refused to
Tristan Paylor:go because they were like, I don't, you know, I don't want to
Tristan Paylor:go down in history being seen, you know, photographed with
Tristan Paylor:Donald Trump who's responsible for all these horrible things.
Tristan Paylor:But like, hockey culture is very conservative, not just like, in
Tristan Paylor:a political sense, but in the sense that like, team, the team
Tristan Paylor:comes first before the individual. And it's all about
Tristan Paylor:sort of like conserving the tradition, and not rocking the
Tristan Paylor:boat and not deviating from your team, like being you know, too
Tristan Paylor:much of an individual celebrity is also kind of discouraged, or
Tristan Paylor:like showing too much personality, because it's taking
Tristan Paylor:attention away from the team and putting it on an individual. So
Tristan Paylor:it's like a really, you know, he's breaking away from this
Tristan Paylor:very sort of unified, you know, I feel like this is sort of the
Tristan Paylor:shadow side of Venus, where it's like, in order for this team to
Tristan Paylor:remain cohesive, and everyone to get along, and like each other,
Tristan Paylor:you know, we can't do anything divisive. And he made a decision
Tristan Paylor:to stand by his principles, and do something divisive. And you
Tristan Paylor:know, and ultimately, the team ended up supporting him and
Tristan Paylor:everything was fine, but I feel like that's, that's sort of the
Tristan Paylor:meaning of, of Venus. And Aries, to me is like, in order to get
Tristan Paylor:to peace, we need to actually sometimes deviate from the group
Tristan Paylor:mentality, we sometimes have to do or say things that are not
Tristan Paylor:nice that ruffle feathers. And that like supportive
Tristan Paylor:relationship between this retrograde Venus in Aries and
Tristan Paylor:Mars in Cancer, I think really illustrates that kind of, you
Tristan Paylor:know, understanding of the world, you know, and the
Tristan Paylor:willingness to actually say, like I am, I am going to do
Tristan Paylor:something that, you know, especially since Venus is right
Tristan Paylor:up there in the 10th house, you know, pretty visible I mean, is
Tristan Paylor:it under the beams or it's sort of on the border line there? I
Tristan Paylor:think it's still pretty visible.
Kyle Pierce:Mammals don't have that, though. Exalted. Yes. It's
Kyle Pierce:like, Venus maybe can't be seen it by itself. Like it has to be
Kyle Pierce:like plants under the beams to some degree, it's like the sun
Kyle Pierce:sort of takes over, or they like they have to express themselves
Kyle Pierce:through the sun.
Tristan Paylor:Yeah, but that's not the worst sign you could
Tristan Paylor:express yourself through great sun. I mean, it's a heroic Sun
Tristan Paylor:too. So it is kind of like being willing to take a risk, you
Tristan Paylor:know, in order to do what is right, being willing to take a
Tristan Paylor:risk for the sake of the things that Venus stands for, which is,
Tristan Paylor:you know, a world in which people enjoy peace and harmony
Tristan Paylor:and, you know, enjoy things that are fun and pleasurable, and,
Tristan Paylor:you know, have the leisure time and we can't have something
Tristan Paylor:that's unpopular. Yeah. We can't have any of those things without
Tristan Paylor:actual justice, you know,
Kyle Pierce:ya know, retrograde means makes you think of
Kyle Pierce:specifically what your chart currently on this makes me think
Kyle Pierce:of like the tyranny of the majority, which democracies run
Kyle Pierce:into, right when, you know, we may all agree on a law. But that
Kyle Pierce:law is not just that laws broken or that law is actually creating
Kyle Pierce:strife and conflict. Think like Venus retrograde is, you know,
Kyle Pierce:that's when Venus retrograde steps in is like now, this is a
Kyle Pierce:this may be popular, but this is not good. This is not. This is
Kyle Pierce:actually creating more strife and disharmony. Yeah. And I feel
Kyle Pierce:like that combination, Mars and cancer. Be like that's the
Kyle Pierce:important part of your life is maybe having to advocate for or
Kyle Pierce:say the unpopular thing. For the sake of sick of being, you know,
Kyle Pierce:right. Right.
Tristan Paylor:But the secret lair prodution Yeah, yeah,
Tristan Paylor:Phoenician principles, which are all like now Things You know,
Tristan Paylor:like Venus wants nice things.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah. I think it's Venus like makes Mars a lot more
Kyle Pierce:well intentioned overall, you know, not that can't Yeah, by
Kyle Pierce:itself. But yeah, I in that. I mean, that can be a very
Kyle Pierce:uncomfortable position to be in, though to Yes. To be, you know,
Kyle Pierce:sing the things that other people don't want to hear.
Tristan Paylor:But you know, you do have that exalted sun in
Tristan Paylor:the 10th. And you also have that opposition from Jupiter to help
Tristan Paylor:perhaps smooth that over and you know, make the things that you
Tristan Paylor:want to say. More resonant? Yeah, it's a very I that caught
Tristan Paylor:my eye immediately. So I was like, Okay, well, Venus is in
Tristan Paylor:detriment here but also has reception with Jupiter, which is
Tristan Paylor:in Venus's sign of Libra. So Venus and Jupiter have an
Tristan Paylor:understanding and Jupiter is able much like, you know, Venus
Tristan Paylor:is kind of able to send Mars things from home that Mars might
Tristan Paylor:need. Jupiter is in a similar position here where Jupiter is,
Tristan Paylor:you know, in Venus's house, and Jupiter's nature is to want to
Tristan Paylor:help and I think the nature of an opposition with genetics
Tristan Paylor:involved is actually stabilizing, because the
Tristan Paylor:opposition is the aspect of Saturn and so it has a sort of,
Tristan Paylor:you know, stuckness or rigidity to it, it tends to slow things
Tristan Paylor:down. But when you're talking about benefics you know, I think
Tristan Paylor:that's, that's a more pleasant potential manifestation of that
Tristan Paylor:kind of like, slow steady energy. It's been, you know, my
Tristan Paylor:experience with I have Jupiter very loosely opposing my Moon in
Tristan Paylor:Scorpio. And I sometimes feel like that's my saving grace, you
Tristan Paylor:know, or like, my Moon in Scorpio tends to go to extremes
Tristan Paylor:but there's, you know, sweet, gentle Jupiter and Taurus just
Tristan Paylor:sort of, like, take a moment. And, you know, offers that kind
Tristan Paylor:of, you know, like that, that strong, steady hand on your
Tristan Paylor:shoulder that kind of studies you and allows you to center
Tristan Paylor:yourself before you react. I think you know, Jupiter can
Tristan Paylor:offer some of that to Venus, and also Jupiter happens to be in
Tristan Paylor:the sign of Libra, which is all about justice. So you know,
Tristan Paylor:maybe some of that symbolism is being repeated here. Yeah, of
Tristan Paylor:you know, being being good. And, you know, you're talking about
Tristan Paylor:the law and, you know, laws can be popularly agreed on but still
Tristan Paylor:be unjust or corrupt. And Jupiter is the law. And Jupiter
Tristan Paylor:in Libra is assessing and judging whether or not laws are
Tristan Paylor:fair,
Kyle Pierce:yeah. Yeah, it's like Venus has, you know, has a
Kyle Pierce:planet in Libra. And it's Jupiter. Jupiter, is a good role
Kyle Pierce:model, you know, Venus, like, knows that it's by choice so
Kyle Pierce:much, but it's like Venus knows how to be Venus. If it needs to
Kyle Pierce:be reimagined, like you're able to be agreeable and all that
Kyle Pierce:when you when you need to be, but it's maybe not your
Kyle Pierce:inclination, some degree or maybe not. What you need to do
Kyle Pierce:to maybe solve that Grand Cross, I could see, like, I don't know
Kyle Pierce:if I'd be interested in maybe how, to what degree some seems
Kyle Pierce:like this might have played out for jet as well as, like, I
Kyle Pierce:don't know, like with a Grand Cross, it's like the, because
Kyle Pierce:there's so much energy being fed into, into that aspect pattern.
Kyle Pierce:It's like, you get, like, flow with it to some degree. You have
Kyle Pierce:to kind of demanding an outlet. I guess, you know, thinking
Kyle Pierce:about like Mars, like, on the ascendant in the first. And
Kyle Pierce:because it's like, usually, like the out of sect. malefic is
Kyle Pierce:something you know, is like, something that you want to like,
Kyle Pierce:contain or manage or curtail, sort of, like instinctively be
Kyle Pierce:like, I don't know. speaks to me more as like, I don't know, it's
Kyle Pierce:like something about difficulties around self
Kyle Pierce:expression to some degree, like finding courage to be different.
Tristan Paylor:Yeah, that's a good feeling. It's a good sort
Tristan Paylor:of key phrase for Mars and cancer in the first house is,
Tristan Paylor:you know, having the courage to stand out in some way. And I
Tristan Paylor:don't know it's, it's interesting, you know, as
Tristan Paylor:somebody with a fallen out of SEC planet ruling, my first I
Tristan Paylor:remember, you know, back in my online dating days in the
Tristan Paylor:distant past, there was a match question on OKCupid, the dating
Tristan Paylor:site, which is, you know, what, would you rather be normal or
Tristan Paylor:weird? And it always made me pause. Because I am very much
Tristan Paylor:weird, and I've spent my whole life being told in no uncertain
Tristan Paylor:terms that that is what I am by everyone around me, but I often
Tristan Paylor:kind of resent being weird and I often think about how much
Tristan Paylor:easier my life would be If I didn't stand out, and you know,
Tristan Paylor:I go through phases of kind of trying to present myself in a
Tristan Paylor:way that makes me stand out less. And it just, I just can't
Tristan Paylor:keep it up. And it's frustrating because it's like, I don't I'm
Tristan Paylor:not trying to get attention by being weird. This isn't some,
Tristan Paylor:like, you know, narcissistic thing, I just, I just want to be
Tristan Paylor:myself and be left alone. Like, I don't actually want people
Tristan Paylor:making comments about me. But, you know, so like, if if I were
Tristan Paylor:just if I just had more normal tastes and a more normal, more
Tristan Paylor:normal interests and more, you know, if I did what was expected
Tristan Paylor:of me, my life would go much smoother and I wouldn't draw
Tristan Paylor:attention to myself and I'd be able to fly under the radar. But
Tristan Paylor:for some reason, it's just my nature. Yeah. And I think you
Tristan Paylor:know, making peace with you know, I'm probably never gonna
Tristan Paylor:have a quote unquote, normal life is you know, sort of part
Tristan Paylor:of my journey right now as being at peace with that. And I don't
Tristan Paylor:know Karolina, if you can relate to that at all. But you know, if
Tristan Paylor:you can maybe that's maybe that's part of your Mars in
Tristan Paylor:Cancer on the ascendant journey to is just like being okay,
Tristan Paylor:with, with being different, and, you know, standing out for who
Tristan Paylor:you are, and what makes you unique, even if you know, that's
Tristan Paylor:sometimes challenging or, you know, results in in attention or
Tristan Paylor:reactions that you'd rather not deal with.
Kyle Pierce:No, I think, well, it's something that you
Kyle Pierce:inherently both have. So the sun, exalted in the 10th. But
Kyle Pierce:just like the sun in the 10th, in general, it's like, they're,
Kyle Pierce:like, you can't help but like, attract attention. Yeah, it's
Kyle Pierce:not you know, whether you want it or not, it's kind of like
Kyle Pierce:they're like a, you're just going to tend to draw more
Kyle Pierce:attention, I think with some attempt.
Tristan Paylor:Yeah. And an Aries is just as the sun
Tristan Paylor:everything sort of the Sun is magnetic, and it's the brightest
Tristan Paylor:thing there is, everyone is looking at it, everyone's
Tristan Paylor:revolving around it, you kinda, you kind of can't escape it. Now
Tristan Paylor:what occurs is the gift and the curse of the Exalted son is just
Tristan Paylor:like not not being able to kind of go anywhere on notice. It's,
Tristan Paylor:it's not it's not a stealthy placement.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah. Whether you want to be looked at or not.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, visibility is sort of unavoidable. And yeah, I think
Kyle Pierce:for you, Kristen, with the moon Scorpio, and for you, Karolina
Kyle Pierce:with the moon in the fourth house is, you know, there's
Kyle Pierce:going to be a tendency more towards preferring privacy
Kyle Pierce:preferring not wanting to have all the attention, I would think
Kyle Pierce:for you clearly and with, I don't know, being compelled or
Kyle Pierce:impelled to challenge the status quo, he'd be having to reconcile
Kyle Pierce:getting attention for it to be accepting the attention. And
Kyle Pierce:doing it any way is part of the journey.
Tristan Paylor:Or maybe, you know, finding the spaces where
Tristan Paylor:where the attention makes sense. Yeah. Where it's received. Well,
Tristan Paylor:that's another sort of challenge is, you know, finding Where's
Tristan Paylor:where's the right space for me to shine where, you know, it's
Tristan Paylor:not making unreasonable demands of me. Yeah. Well, yeah, that
Tristan Paylor:the Oh, sorry. Go ahead.
Kyle Pierce:I was just gonna add, part of what's positive,
Kyle Pierce:though, about just Mars in Cancer is that it's the ruler of
Kyle Pierce:the 10th. And the fifth, you know, it's being on your
Kyle Pierce:ascendant. While it does have like, the out of sect, Mars job,
Kyle Pierce:it's also you know, those are powerful, more positive houses,
Kyle Pierce:and to have that clarity on your Ascendant is, you know, because
Kyle Pierce:with a traditionally would be called, like, eminence, you
Kyle Pierce:know,
Tristan Paylor:yeah, it's bringing, bringing the
Tristan Paylor:significations of the fifth and the 10th houses into the first
Tristan Paylor:house, you know, where they're sort of part of your, your
Tristan Paylor:identity and where you have a lot of, you know, potential a
Tristan Paylor:lot of agency over those topics. And they're very visible to
Tristan Paylor:other people. I mean, I having the fifth house, you know, being
Tristan Paylor:very visible to people. I mean, that can be fun, you know, maybe
Tristan Paylor:or maybe you're really fun to hang out with at a party.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, I mean, well, I guess it's not a Come on. I
Kyle Pierce:don't know you. Like sex appeal do?
Tristan Paylor:Yeah, this is true that like sort of unusual
Tristan Paylor:Sex House sucks. Yeah, like unusual sex appeal. The Mars
Tristan Paylor:maltreating the Moon and Jupiter. meno is, you know, one
Tristan Paylor:of the more sort of challenging aspects in the chart and part of
Tristan Paylor:that Grand Cross where Mars in Cancer is overcoming Jupiter,
Tristan Paylor:and the moon in the fourth house in Libra. And I think maybe that
Tristan Paylor:is For a repetition of some of the themes of, you know, a bit
Tristan Paylor:of the tension between the the 10th house and the fourth house,
Tristan Paylor:potentially, where, you know, the moon, in the fourth house,
Tristan Paylor:you know, wants privacy and the Moon in Libra wants peace. You
Tristan Paylor:know, it doesn't, doesn't want to deal with, you know, extreme
Tristan Paylor:situations or, you know, extreme people or conflict or fighting
Tristan Paylor:or arguments or any of that kind of stuff, it just wants
Tristan Paylor:everything to go smoothly and you know, wants to be able to
Tristan Paylor:relax. And you know, Mars being in this very visible part of the
Tristan Paylor:chart, maybe, you know, is another illustration of some
Tristan Paylor:potential tension there between the desire for privacy and the
Tristan Paylor:desire for, you know, things on a social level to just kind of
Tristan Paylor:go easily and nicely without disagreements, and then, you
Tristan Paylor:know, this Mars in the first house that's just like, No, we
Tristan Paylor:need, we need to, you know, say things that people don't want to
Tristan Paylor:hear. And you know, we're going to stand out in a really visible
Tristan Paylor:way. So there's too, you know, and it's like, we were talking
Tristan Paylor:about the Grand Cross and kind of competing drives or impulses,
Tristan Paylor:like those are two potential competing impulses in this
Tristan Paylor:chart, and Mars is going to have a bit of a tendency to get the
Tristan Paylor:upper hand, but there's also again, reception because the
Tristan Paylor:moon is in, or Mars is in the moon's sign. So that also like
Tristan Paylor:potentially softens the tension there and creates more potential
Tristan Paylor:for compromise between those two areas of life.
Kyle Pierce:But with Mars, overcoming those, those fourth
Kyle Pierce:house planets, sort of like doing some damage to like the
Kyle Pierce:privacy even, you know, like, yeah, say the things that people
Kyle Pierce:don't want to hear is maybe just like, part of like, what you're
Kyle Pierce:called to do to some degree, maybe at some point and have
Kyle Pierce:like, your, your sort of privacy disturbed by that or? Yeah, that
Kyle Pierce:feels like mean, just having to do something that it's like a
Kyle Pierce:hard choice, or I don't know, like, like me wanting to keep
Kyle Pierce:the peace, like the Venus. But you know, Venus is also like,
Kyle Pierce:now we got challenged consensus. So,
Tristan Paylor:yes, I see where you're coming from, and it's
Tristan Paylor:making me think about situation, you know, an example from my own
Tristan Paylor:life right now. Like the the fourth house, in Carolina's
Tristan Paylor:chart is, is a little mixed, you know, it's a little confusing,
Tristan Paylor:because you've got to benefic of the second favor, that being
Tristan Paylor:Jupiter in the fourth house, and you know, in a day chart,
Tristan Paylor:Jupiter is traditionally the most positive planet and so
Tristan Paylor:where Jupiter is located, should generally you know, indicate
Tristan Paylor:where things tend to go well and go easily and be pleasant and
Tristan Paylor:enjoyable, like, you know, potentially some of the most
Tristan Paylor:fulfilling or enjoyable topics of life will be found where
Tristan Paylor:Jupiter is, but you know, Jupiter is also retrograde and
Tristan Paylor:in sort of a complicated, you know, maltreatment with Mars,
Tristan Paylor:but there's also like, some reception there by exaltation,
Tristan Paylor:because cancer is Jupiter's exaltation. But, you know, Mars
Tristan Paylor:doesn't really understand Libra very well. So, you know,
Tristan Paylor:there's, there's a little bit of potential for relating to each
Tristan Paylor:other here. But I'd still say overall, it's quite a tense
Tristan Paylor:relationship between Mars and Jupiter. So yeah, it's like in
Tristan Paylor:in theory, you know, home and family should be like, some of
Tristan Paylor:the most enjoyable experiences in this chart. And then, you
Tristan Paylor:know, Mars is kind of getting in there and being like, I want to
Tristan Paylor:cause problems. But, you know, I don't I don't actually really
Tristan Paylor:think of it as far as causing problems and I think that's a
Tristan Paylor:lesson I'm learning right now. As someone who also has cancer
Tristan Paylor:rising and has a Libra fourth house like Karolina does. I am
Tristan Paylor:in a Mars year, as is Karolina actually, I checked, we're both
Tristan Paylor:fifth house we're both having Mars years. And so Mars is and
Tristan Paylor:Kyle too. So like all three of us, really, we're all in the
Tristan Paylor:same boat here where Mars risings with Mars, transiting
Tristan Paylor:the fourth Mars Sun, Mars in detriment transiting the fourth
Tristan Paylor:house.
Kyle Pierce:Actually my Solar Return chart this year, looks a
Kyle Pierce:lot like Karolina say Mars Exactly. On my ascendant for
Kyle Pierce:celebrity. Return to the minute. Oh, that's interesting. I
Kyle Pierce:actually got pulled over the next day, the day after my
Kyle Pierce:birthday because my license was expired for one day had been
Kyle Pierce:expired for one day and I got it Legal hell. But you know, Mars
Kyle Pierce:also rules my tongue started the podcast or two podcasts actually
Kyle Pierce:this year. So you take the good with the bad.
Tristan Paylor:Oh, that's that's the thing, right is that
Tristan Paylor:the mill? The mill ethics represent extremes. And I think,
Tristan Paylor:you know, we tend to think of the mill ethics as representing
Tristan Paylor:all the bad stuff, forgetting that extremes mean that there is
Tristan Paylor:extreme good and extreme bad. And I mean, that's certainly
Tristan Paylor:been my experience of my Mars years so far is it's a roller
Tristan Paylor:coaster, where it's like absolute euphoria, everything's
Tristan Paylor:going well, tons of opportunities are being handed
Tristan Paylor:to you. And then the worst of the worst, everything is falling
Tristan Paylor:apart, and then we go back up. It's, I think, maybe why, you
Tristan Paylor:know, people are sometimes sometimes express disappointment
Tristan Paylor:about Jupiter transits and that's like, Well, if the time
Tristan Paylor:of your life when Jupiter was making that transit was really
Tristan Paylor:genuinely Jupiter re, it probably would have just gone by
Tristan Paylor:without any fanfare, because now it's like, easy and things come
Tristan Paylor:naturally. And, you know, it's the the Mars energy that's like,
Tristan Paylor:wow, that was really amazing. And then that was really
Tristan Paylor:terrible, sort of, like all at once, or whatever.
Kyle Pierce:Like, Jupiter might pass you the ball, but you still
Kyle Pierce:got to run with it.
Tristan Paylor:Yeah. But yeah, the sort of experience I'm
Tristan Paylor:having with Mars, and Libra, transiting my fourth house right
Tristan Paylor:now is I've got like, weird family stuff going on. And it
Tristan Paylor:has, you know, I guess in my life, I've been very
Tristan Paylor:characteristically a, you know, Venus ruled fourth house kind of
Tristan Paylor:person where my approach to family is, you know, I'm I just
Tristan Paylor:tried to be relaxed and live or let live and just kind of end up
Tristan Paylor:ignoring a lot of problems and not asserting myself. And, you
Tristan Paylor:know, just sort of being agreeable in situations where I
Tristan Paylor:should actually be standing up for myself. But it's been the
Tristan Paylor:kind of case where I've been able to get away with that for a
Tristan Paylor:long time. And now that Mars is going through my fourth house,
Tristan Paylor:I'm going through a situation where it's sort of like, oh, I
Tristan Paylor:can't ignore this anymore. There. There's actually like,
Tristan Paylor:serious dysfunction here. And, you know, I think that can be
Tristan Paylor:one of the qualities of Mars where, you know, maybe the Moon
Tristan Paylor:and Jupiter in Libra and Carolina's fourth house, you
Tristan Paylor:know, they just want to be kind of live and let live when it
Tristan Paylor:comes to issues at home. You know, whether those are physical
Tristan Paylor:issues with like, the actual house or their dynamics within a
Tristan Paylor:family or what have you any any sort of fourth house topics,
Tristan Paylor:they're going to be a little more laid back about it. And,
Tristan Paylor:you know, sometimes being laid back about things causes us to
Tristan Paylor:miss problems until they've been kind of building for so long
Tristan Paylor:that it becomes really hard to change them and Mars is kind of
Tristan Paylor:the energy that we need to shake us out of those ruts a little
Tristan Paylor:bit.
Kyle Pierce:Actually, I think it's funny that Justin had been
Kyle Pierce:talking about this a lot since Mars got into Libra, but both
Kyle Pierce:having just kind of like annoying like family problems
Kyle Pierce:sort of come up as Mars transits the fourth house in a Mars ruled
Kyle Pierce:perfection year I'd be really curious actually hope that you
Kyle Pierce:maybe let us know Karolina. If you're having annoying family
Kyle Pierce:problems.
Tristan Paylor:or annoying like house problems like Yeah, I
Tristan Paylor:think when Keith and I first moved in my partner and I first
Tristan Paylor:moved into our new house, we actually have a well which is in
Tristan Paylor:mundane astrology wells are ruled by the fourth house. And I
Tristan Paylor:think Mars was going through his fourth house. And the well bro
Tristan Paylor:you know, and I feel like it's not it's not it's it's easy to
Tristan Paylor:tell a narrative where it's like, oh, Mars is coming in
Tristan Paylor:fucking things up, but it's actually not that like Mars is
Tristan Paylor:antagonizing so much as Mars is pointing out that like, hey,
Tristan Paylor:this thing's been breaking down for a really long time. And if
Tristan Paylor:you just put like a little bit too much pressure on it right
Tristan Paylor:now, it's going to utterly collapse. So like you now are
Tristan Paylor:forced to address it.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, yeah. Do some work. Do some Mars.
Tristan Paylor:Yeah, you got to do the Mars Mars work, which is,
Tristan Paylor:you know, the the work to sort of maintain a I guess adequate
Tristan Paylor:level. It's like fixing your well, or, you know, dealing with
Tristan Paylor:annoying annoying family members.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, I'm just one. There's another chart thing I
Kyle Pierce:wanted to point out. I find interesting. Is Mercury is in
Kyle Pierce:Pisces, in the ninth house. Um, it's actually has the Anisha
Kyle Pierce:with Jupiter and Venus. It's within what is that? It's a
Kyle Pierce:couple of degrees off, but it's like within what I would call
Kyle Pierce:the range of the Anisha. So it's like kind of being received by
Kyle Pierce:Jupiter through that. And Tisha, for listeners unfamiliar with
Kyle Pierce:Anisha has to do with the equinox all points, right? So
Kyle Pierce:like the Pisces, Aries cusp, the Virgo, Libra cusp, the Capricorn
Kyle Pierce:Sagittarius cups and the Gemini cancer, cusp. And when you think
Kyle Pierce:of like the planets being able to see each other by a
Kyle Pierce:traditional aspect, you know, it's one form of affinity. But
Kyle Pierce:the Anisha was another form of affinity, another way for
Kyle Pierce:planets to to interact with each other, as opposed to just being
Kyle Pierce:like in a version because they have the same distance away from
Kyle Pierce:the solstice points. I can never remember what to call those
Kyle Pierce:things.
Tristan Paylor:But Equinox points because I think a
Tristan Paylor:solstice Yeah, one is contour and Tisha is Solstice points. I
Tristan Paylor:think, if I'm remembering this correctly, we have the symbolism
Tristan Paylor:has to do with like, having the same amount of light that's
Tristan Paylor:that's what gives them affinity.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, so there's like a relationship with the
Kyle Pierce:planets kind of like mitigated diversion. But Mercury is like
Kyle Pierce:in this kind of interesting position to like, because
Kyle Pierce:mercury is, you know, the translator to sort of be a voice
Kyle Pierce:for those, those two planets and it's in a applying trine with
Kyle Pierce:Mars on the ascendant. So I don't know if you do any kind of
Kyle Pierce:writing or like philosophical or like spiritual activities, like
Kyle Pierce:ninth house activities.
Tristan Paylor:Astrologer ology Yeah. Mercury is the planet of
Tristan Paylor:astrology in the house of astrology in your chart,
Tristan Paylor:Karolina so HINT HINT nudge nudge on Mercury
Kyle Pierce:is to grade Mercury Mars is going to be gather so
Kyle Pierce:maybe maybe that's why you wanted to reach out to astrology
Kyle Pierce:going for like two hours now two and a half hours coincides and
Kyle Pierce:he reaching out to a couple astrologers. But yeah, I don't
Kyle Pierce:know if you do any writing, but that could be a really good way
Kyle Pierce:of and I always like my mind jumps to remediation, or just
Kyle Pierce:like ways to like a positive ways to like, you know, without
Kyle Pierce:a chart writing. gonna write something controversial or, you
Kyle Pierce:know, if you have like big opinions, right? Um,
Tristan Paylor:one one last little thing I wanted to point
Tristan Paylor:out as an interesting mitigating factor in this chart. Before I
Tristan Paylor:actually attempt to answer the question properly, and not just
Tristan Paylor:sit here and analyze curliness turn on night, which is proving
Tristan Paylor:to be a really fun exercise. Yeah, thank you for sharing.
Kyle Pierce:I mean, I won't be dismissive of, you know, some of
Kyle Pierce:the challenges that can be described in a chart, but that
Kyle Pierce:can be what is nice about astrology too, is that you know,
Kyle Pierce:sort of look at the fun side of things too.
Tristan Paylor:Yeah, I think that's sorry, go ahead. You
Kyle Pierce:go ahead. I was thinking you
Tristan Paylor:know, you know, we're gonna we're gonna channel
Tristan Paylor:the energy or like, you know, Venus in Aries, where it's like,
Tristan Paylor:I'm going to be aggressively polite. Go first. No,
Tristan Paylor:absolutely. I will kill you if you don't go first.
Kyle Pierce:I like that
Tristan Paylor:Venus in Aries. And Karolina is chart or, you
Tristan Paylor:know, Mars transiting through Libra. Right now. We're
Tristan Paylor:channeling the energy of one or both of them. Venus in in Aries
Tristan Paylor:in Carolina's chart is actually in its own term. So not only for
Tristan Paylor:those unfamiliar with the subdivisions of the zodiac
Tristan Paylor:signs, there are various methods of dividing the zodiac signs
Tristan Paylor:into smaller sections that also have symbolic meaning. And term
Tristan Paylor:or bound is a really ancient one where you know, each zodiac sign
Tristan Paylor:is kind of unevenly divided. And each section is ruled by its own
Tristan Paylor:planet. So in curliness chart, Venus at eight degrees of Aries
Tristan Paylor:is in its own bound, or term. And one way to interpret this is
Tristan Paylor:it's a type of essential dignity. And it's kind of like
Tristan Paylor:Venus is in you know, the best room in the house. So Venus is
Tristan Paylor:in Mars's house because it's an Aries which is an awkward place
Tristan Paylor:for Venus to find itself. But Venus at least has the nicest
Tristan Paylor:room in Mars's house, which, you know, gives it a little bit of a
Tristan Paylor:boost and, you know, because it's also in the overcoming
Tristan Paylor:position over Mars. It you know, has little Little bit of power
Tristan Paylor:so you know I kind of think of this as like she's a guest in
Tristan Paylor:Mars's house and Mars is kind of making his best effort to give
Tristan Paylor:her a space of her own where she can be comfortable even though
Tristan Paylor:she's so far from her actual home so it's like you know Venus
Tristan Paylor:can have the most of Venus the room and Mars his house and can
Tristan Paylor:kind of make some demands of Mars like, I don't really like
Tristan Paylor:the food here. You know, I I'm tired of eating red meat and
Tristan Paylor:drinking whiskey like I you know, want some souffle or
Tristan Paylor:whatever, you know, Venus would want to eat and can kind of, you
Tristan Paylor:know, get get a little bit of demand a little bit of room
Tristan Paylor:service from Mars here.
Kyle Pierce:No. I actually, I love this. I'm just realizing,
Kyle Pierce:remember this because I wrote an article on it was the lunation.
Kyle Pierce:This year, March 28. The Full Moon in Libra. It was when Venus
Kyle Pierce:was Cassini, the sun in Aries and opposing exactly the Moon in
Kyle Pierce:Libra at the exact same degree in your chart, currently no.
Kyle Pierce:Eight degrees when it was in its own bound. It's actually
Kyle Pierce:interesting that that happened and it would have been a Venus
Kyle Pierce:rule year. So I'm wondering if something interesting might
Kyle Pierce:happen for you. March 28 of 2021 just figuring this out, so I
Kyle Pierce:don't I don't have like an off the cuff interpretation for
Kyle Pierce:that. But I feel like I'm giving Karolina a lot of homework.
Kyle Pierce:Sorry. But if I really want to know now, you want to shoot us
Kyle Pierce:an email or something? Anything happened, like around the end of
Kyle Pierce:March? Because that full moon is interesting. And I found it I
Kyle Pierce:thought it was a really interesting position for Venus
Kyle Pierce:to be in in its own term and then Cassini lithium exalted
Kyle Pierce:sun. Yeah, anyway, yeah. The term the Venus is in the gives
Kyle Pierce:like he's like better equipped, you know, actually, I feel like
Kyle Pierce:it's a really good position for a retrograde Venus in Aries to
Kyle Pierce:be in, like where it has, like all the tools to do its job,
Kyle Pierce:because it is like a little more of a challenger. And it has, you
Kyle Pierce:know, access to the the Venus section of the arsenal.
Tristan Paylor:Hmm. Yeah, it's like, you know, it's still
Tristan Paylor:challenging placement, fundamentally, but ultimately
Tristan Paylor:also has access to resources, they're going to enable it to
Tristan Paylor:meet those challenges. Yeah. In terms of, you know, dealing with
Tristan Paylor:difficult aspects, which is one of the questions, Karolina
Tristan Paylor:asked, you know, how do you react to challenging aspect
Tristan Paylor:panic or panic Freako has my dog is doing right now. Ketsu took
Tristan Paylor:your injunction to panic very seriously. My dog also has a, a
Tristan Paylor:moon Mars square in his chart. And he's very, very good at.
Kyle Pierce:Oh, yeah, that's like one of the few things we
Kyle Pierce:don't have in common in our charts. You don't have the moon
Kyle Pierce:Mars square?
Tristan Paylor:No, no, I still get panic moon because it's in a
Tristan Paylor:Mars sign. But the Moon and Mars are sextile in my chart. So
Tristan Paylor:that's a little. I don't know, I guess I know how to manage my
Tristan Paylor:panic when it happens. Hopefully, maybe that's because
Tristan Paylor:more because that's what it means. Justified panic,
Kyle Pierce:unjustified? No, or more. Exactly. Fine.
Tristan Paylor:All right, I see what you're saying.
Kyle Pierce:Everything's sextile Interesting. Okay.
Tristan Paylor:One piece of advice for dealing with any sort
Tristan Paylor:of contradiction or, you know, two impulses or two areas of
Tristan Paylor:life that you know, require some kind of reconciliation or
Tristan Paylor:compromise is to give them a common goal. So, you know, if
Tristan Paylor:the planets involved in a challenging aspect, share some
Tristan Paylor:kind of goal in common, they're more likely to work together in
Tristan Paylor:spite of their differences. So just kind of looking at your
Tristan Paylor:chart for examples. You know, Mars and the Moon are both
Tristan Paylor:connected to your first house because your first house is
Tristan Paylor:ruled by the moon. And Mars is, you know, right there on the
Tristan Paylor:ascendant. So, you know, both of these planets, in a sense, are
Tristan Paylor:being tasked with helping you to establish a really strong sense
Tristan Paylor:of individual identity. You know, helping you to cultivate
Tristan Paylor:self esteem, that kind of thing. And, you know, if you're able to
Tristan Paylor:kind of get those two Um, impulses working together
Tristan Paylor:towards, you know, sort of the common goal of like a healthy,
Tristan Paylor:strong sense of identity. You know, that can be a way of
Tristan Paylor:reconciling those.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, I mean, so how to react would be not to do
Kyle Pierce:what I said earlier, because I was joking. But yeah, don't
Kyle Pierce:panic, because I do think there's a lot of things that you
Kyle Pierce:and I, and everyone can do that already do do that work with
Kyle Pierce:those difficult aspects. But I mean, I guess you gotta like
Kyle Pierce:take it on a case by case basis, because it's like the, I tend to
Kyle Pierce:think that the aspect in the chart the planets involved in
Kyle Pierce:everything can describe, you know, a problem, it also kind of
Kyle Pierce:has like the, the solution sort of built into it too. I don't
Kyle Pierce:find that most things, in certain things are
Kyle Pierce:irreconcilable, like, I don't know, probably not going to
Kyle Pierce:enjoy like coffee beans, and your peanut butter and jelly, or
Kyle Pierce:something. But usually, there are ways that you can integrate
Kyle Pierce:something like a square, or something that kind of points to
Kyle Pierce:a dichotomy here, or something that seems, you know, a
Kyle Pierce:conflict. But there's also
Kyle Pierce:you know, I'm not a psychologist can do, you know, diagnose
Kyle Pierce:anything, but read a lot about psychology and a lot of the way
Kyle Pierce:that it's approached, you know, it's not so much about fixing,
Kyle Pierce:you know, what's wrong with you. It's not really what it's about,
Kyle Pierce:it's about no forgiving yourself for not being perfect for not
Kyle Pierce:having all exalted planets that are all trying and sextile to
Kyle Pierce:each other. Like, you know, we're all imperfect creatures.
Kyle Pierce:And it's also kind of what makes us interesting and unique, and
Kyle Pierce:how we react to challenges and the creative ways that we find
Kyle Pierce:to solve those problems. I don't know, sometimes I like to look
Kyle Pierce:at like some, like difficult placements is like, a quest or
Kyle Pierce:something like, a problem that I had been tasked to solve. Like.
Kyle Pierce:I don't know that I think that's what's cool about astrology is
Kyle Pierce:that you get the symbolic framework for looking at things
Kyle Pierce:and you can use that in a very negative way. And you can, you
Kyle Pierce:can play with that and find, you know, ways to re to tell the
Kyle Pierce:story differently. This strategy is great, because it like it
Kyle Pierce:calls attention to tendencies that you may already be aware
Kyle Pierce:of, but maybe puts them into a context, it's like easier to
Kyle Pierce:identify, and potentially makes it easier to work with, because
Kyle Pierce:you can actually have a language to describe it.
Tristan Paylor:I really, I really liked that about how, you
Tristan Paylor:know, there are different ways to tell the story. Astrology
Tristan Paylor:gives you different ways of telling your story. And you can
Tristan Paylor:look at it through many different from many different
Tristan Paylor:perspectives. You know, one of my pieces of advice for
Tristan Paylor:navigating challenging placements is having a sense of
Tristan Paylor:humor. Okay, now, I want to Kyle's pet charts that we
Tristan Paylor:discussed on a recent episode, as Will Ferrell who has you
Tristan Paylor:know, a lot of debilitated planets in his chart. And, you
Tristan Paylor:know, they are expressed through comedy where it's like, there's
Tristan Paylor:an incongruence at two planets and follow detriment. And that
Tristan Paylor:kind of incongruency like something being in a place where
Tristan Paylor:it's not supposed to be is the core of humor. You know, so
Tristan Paylor:finding, finding a way to express those things through
Tristan Paylor:humor is his one is one way, that's one perspective, you can
Tristan Paylor:take but of course, you know, like, I also appreciated what
Tristan Paylor:you were saying earlier, you know, we were talking about this
Tristan Paylor:being a fun chart to analyze, but you know, not wanting to
Tristan Paylor:sound dismissive, because another perspective, you can
Tristan Paylor:take on your chart, like you can take the perspective on your
Tristan Paylor:chart of, you know, this is fun, and, you know, I can kind of see
Tristan Paylor:the humor in my life using this framework, but you can also take
Tristan Paylor:the perspective that, you know, I can see some of the hardest
Tristan Paylor:things that have happened in my life in my chart, right? So
Tristan Paylor:depending on the perspective you're looking at your chart
Tristan Paylor:from, and I certainly, you know, don't want to suggest that, you
Tristan Paylor:know, life is just all fun and games and that's, you know, the
Tristan Paylor:best way to look at your chart sometimes. You will find that,
Tristan Paylor:you know, the symbolism in your chart can say something about a
Tristan Paylor:particularly difficult situation that happened in your life.
Tristan Paylor:That's become a really important or influential part of your
Tristan Paylor:story. And you know, Looking at the astrology more seriously,
Tristan Paylor:and using it to help you tell the story of some of the harder
Tristan Paylor:things that have happened in your life can also be healing.
Tristan Paylor:And, you know, give you a language for talking about them
Tristan Paylor:and, you know, figuring out how they fit into your life story in
Tristan Paylor:a meaningful way. You know, and like I was saying, there's some
Tristan Paylor:things in life that are just irreconcilable. But there are
Tristan Paylor:some things in life that are difficult, but we're able to
Tristan Paylor:sort of find meaning in them, regardless, and the symbols of
Tristan Paylor:astrology are really rich for helping us to find meaning in
Tristan Paylor:those difficult circumstances.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, that was like, the only other thing I
Kyle Pierce:wanted to say was that you make meaning out of it, you know?
Kyle Pierce:Think since our last episode, we were exploring the, the science
Kyle Pierce:seen as sort of not science, Enos of astrology, and kind of,
Kyle Pierce:regardless of like, where you come come down on what is or
Kyle Pierce:isn't, you know, objectively true about astrology, it's a
Kyle Pierce:tool for meaning making. And there is no objective single
Kyle Pierce:meaning to things. You know, it's like our job as humans is
Kyle Pierce:we do the meaning making. And astrology is a great tool for
Kyle Pierce:that. And can really strategy is very Jupiter free in the sense
Kyle Pierce:of that it can very much stabilize and affirm meaning in
Kyle Pierce:certain ways, like, oh, yeah, this, this came up this time,
Kyle Pierce:and like, you know, connects with this. And maybe this means
Kyle Pierce:that I didn't get picked on and made fun of in high school for,
Kyle Pierce:for nothing, you know, that there's something to be gained
Kyle Pierce:from that, or something that can be made positive out of that.
Kyle Pierce:And that's not to say that, like, oh, yeah, get picked on in
Kyle Pierce:high school, that'd be great. Let's say that, you know, Yeah,
Kyle Pierce:that sucks. But like we can, we can turn, we can turn that into,
Kyle Pierce:we can find gems in that, you know, we can become people that
Kyle Pierce:empathize with people that were bullied or, you know, we can be
Kyle Pierce:equipped with the tools to help to help those people or, you
Kyle Pierce:know, whatever. There's lots of ways to make meaning. And I
Kyle Pierce:guess I, sometimes I wish I was like one of those astrologers
Kyle Pierce:that have, like, a really strict sense of beliefs that, you know,
Kyle Pierce:I could tell clients like, oh, well, this means that in a past
Kyle Pierce:life, this and that, and you're in this life to heal that wound,
Kyle Pierce:I wish I could tell people that and I don't disagree with those
Kyle Pierce:ideas or statements. I just don't know if it's my particular
Kyle Pierce:personal role to say those things. But I mean, yeah, I
Kyle Pierce:think at the end of the day, give yourself credit to, I
Kyle Pierce:guess, for all the things you've done to make that work, all the
Kyle Pierce:work you've done to make progress. You know, if you got a
Kyle Pierce:bad a bad, traditional Venus, you know, focus on like, the
Kyle Pierce:take some time to focus on like, the ways that you've been Venus,
Kyle Pierce:to people, or in your life. Because you have anybody who
Kyle Pierce:hasn't been a little bit Venus. Yeah, I don't know. I think that
Kyle Pierce:I know, early on in astrology, for me, particularly Hellenistic
Kyle Pierce:astrology would look at, like, you know, the negative things
Kyle Pierce:that were being described. But I kind of forgot to give myself
Kyle Pierce:credit for all the things that I've done to manage that. And,
Kyle Pierce:you know, your chart can't take that away from you, I guess.
Kyle Pierce:Doesn't mean you're doomed to fail at this, you know, means
Kyle Pierce:you have a challenge here. And, you know, you might do the work
Kyle Pierce:to make the best of that, or to turn that around. But it might
Kyle Pierce:be almost makes like your achievements, that area, like
Kyle Pierce:more earned or deserved, in some ways, because they weren't like
Kyle Pierce:handed to you, or, you know, the world wasn't wasn't built to
Kyle Pierce:accommodate, you know, your particular inclinations, you had
Kyle Pierce:to carve out your, your, your niche.
Tristan Paylor:Yeah, I like that, you know, having to carve
Tristan Paylor:out your niche. I think that really is one of the important
Tristan Paylor:lessons of debilitated planets. And just, you know, thinking
Tristan Paylor:more about the different perspectives you can take when
Tristan Paylor:you approach those placements. You know, when I think about my
Tristan Paylor:own debilitated planets like to use, you know, my Moon in
Tristan Paylor:Scorpio as an example. You know, I have anxiety disorders, I have
Tristan Paylor:OCD. And those, you know, the symbolism of the Moon in Scorpio
Tristan Paylor:really connects with those experiences to me, and you know,
Tristan Paylor:that's some of the most difficult stuff that I deal with
Tristan Paylor:in my life, like, I don't feel like I'm a better person,
Tristan Paylor:because I have OCD, my life would be better if I didn't have
Tristan Paylor:it, you know, I wouldn't wish it on anyone, there's no, there's
Tristan Paylor:no benefit, at least for me, you know, maybe other people have a
Tristan Paylor:different perspective on their own illness, but for me, like,
Tristan Paylor:there's no benefit to having it, that, you know, the challenges
Tristan Paylor:it's brought to my life, you know, haven't really done
Tristan Paylor:anything of value for me. But, you know, it's part of my story,
Tristan Paylor:and I can see it reflected in my moon sign, and that makes me
Tristan Paylor:feel seen, it makes me feel seen, you know, by the cosmos,
Tristan Paylor:and, you know, some of the ways of managing that stuff is also
Tristan Paylor:communicated by that symbol. So it's not just, you know, sort of
Tristan Paylor:reflecting my experience, and giving me an alternative way of
Tristan Paylor:describing that experience. But, you know, the, the skills are
Tristan Paylor:what's in the toolbox of the moon, and Scorpio, you know,
Tristan Paylor:offers me potentially some guidance for how to manage that.
Tristan Paylor:And so, you know, that's, that's one way that, you know, the Moon
Tristan Paylor:in Scorpio is meaningful to me, and it's describing something
Tristan Paylor:pretty negative. And pretty hard. But on the other hand, you
Tristan Paylor:know, there if I look at my chart through a more fun
Tristan Paylor:perspective, my Moon in Scorpio also describes some things that
Tristan Paylor:are like, pretty neutral or pretty funny or goofy, you know,
Tristan Paylor:because it's an awkward placement for the moon. It's
Tristan Paylor:like the Moon in Scorpio is in the fifth house. The Fifth house
Tristan Paylor:is supposed to be you know, how we have fun and take pleasure in
Tristan Paylor:things and you know, what we value and, you know, I'm like,
Tristan Paylor:an avid Bone Collector, and, you know, my idea of a good time, is
Tristan Paylor:like, going to the entomology section of the library and
Tristan Paylor:reading the weirdest thing that would freak everybody else out,
Tristan Paylor:you know, like, that's my, the things that I enjoy our fairy
Tristan Paylor:Moon in Scorpio, you know, like, I keep a praying mantis as a
Tristan Paylor:path because like, I enjoy that. And it's like, that's kind of
Tristan Paylor:funny, you know, or it's just like, I, you know, there's this
Tristan Paylor:certain weirdness. To me, that is also symbolized by a Moon in
Tristan Paylor:Scorpio, and I can lean into that, and like, see the humor
Tristan Paylor:and the, you know, creativity and uniqueness in that. So there
Tristan Paylor:are all these different outlooks you can take when you're looking
Tristan Paylor:at those placements. And some of them might reflect genuinely
Tristan Paylor:difficult experiences you've had, but offer some guidance as
Tristan Paylor:to how to deal with them. And some of them, you know, might
Tristan Paylor:reflect neutral or even positive experiences, even though the
Tristan Paylor:placement is unusual or difficult.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, yeah. I mean, I think there are things about
Kyle Pierce:totally a Scorpio moon in the fifth house, right? Wouldn't it
Kyle Pierce:be great, if there was no such thing, if there was no such
Kyle Pierce:thing as a fallen planet or plant, you know, or whatever,
Kyle Pierce:there were no outcasts, you know, if you're going to have
Kyle Pierce:like, highly successful people, you're going to have big
Kyle Pierce:failures to write. But I'm proud to be somebody who, who likes
Kyle Pierce:those people, likes the little stories of the people that you
Kyle Pierce:know, fell through the cracks, or, you know, refuse to even
Kyle Pierce:refuse but just by nature aren't, don't just fit just
Kyle Pierce:don't easily fit in to the generally accepted scheme. But
Kyle Pierce:I'm glad that there are people like that, to to have those
Kyle Pierce:people who care about those people care about those those
Kyle Pierce:things, situations and experiences. Because they exist,
Kyle Pierce:and we have opportunity to make meaning out of those things. I
Kyle Pierce:mean, it that's like my, my job, our job, Tristan, like, is it
Kyle Pierce:think of it like that way? Like, oh, yeah, I like to read about
Kyle Pierce:serial killers. And I can't think of anything redeeming or
Kyle Pierce:positive about that. Other than, you know, that exists. And to be
Kyle Pierce:made out of that, actually, there's nothing good about about
Kyle Pierce:being interested in that. But a lot of people are, I don't know,
Kyle Pierce:I don't know what they will.
Tristan Paylor:Maybe it is, maybe it's the motivation
Tristan Paylor:behind, you know, the the Scorpy onic desire to understand the
Tristan Paylor:worst parts of human nature, you know, the willingness to face
Tristan Paylor:things that, you know, we don't generally want to look at in
Tristan Paylor:order, you know, to understand the extremes of human nature
Tristan Paylor:and, you know, to understand it, how is I think like, this sort
Tristan Paylor:of what most people are probably interested in, you know, when
Tristan Paylor:they're reading about true crime is how, or why, how did this
Tristan Paylor:happen? And if we know how it happened And maybe it can be
Tristan Paylor:prevented. And so maybe there is you know that that interest has
Tristan Paylor:redeeming qualities, right or like, you know, what if you're
Tristan Paylor:you know, in into forensics or something or, you know, you
Tristan Paylor:investigate these horrible crimes for a living, like you're
Tristan Paylor:doing work in a very melodic, you know, blind debilitated area
Tristan Paylor:of life in order to prevent that those circumstances from
Tristan Paylor:happening.
Kyle Pierce:Exactly. I don't know if we'll ever be able to,
Kyle Pierce:like completely eliminate those things. But I think that, you
Kyle Pierce:know, we can reduce them. Let's say that, you know, the planets
Kyle Pierce:have been going around in circles for 1000s of years, and
Kyle Pierce:awful shit still happens on Earth, great things still happen
Kyle Pierce:on earth. But the overall quality of life is improved, I
Kyle Pierce:think on scale. We're not murdering each other on quite
Kyle Pierce:the same scale that we used to, I don't know, life expectancies
Kyle Pierce:have been improved. Lots of other things are terrible. But I
Kyle Pierce:want the path to remediation. I like to think it's my, you know,
Kyle Pierce:optimistic, because he needs you better maybe and the, you know,
Kyle Pierce:maybe the Moon in Scorpio says Everything's fucked, and we're
Kyle Pierce:all gonna die alone. But we got to accept both of those
Kyle Pierce:realities, because both of them are true.
Tristan Paylor:Yeah, that's it. multiple, multiple perspectives
Tristan Paylor:on reality can be true simultaneously. I guess one last
Tristan Paylor:thing might want to say is, Karolina did ask about how
Tristan Paylor:undignified planets or challenging aspects relate to
Tristan Paylor:one's karma? Which I think is a great question, but one I am
Tristan Paylor:absolutely not qualified to answer. Karma as I understand
Tristan Paylor:it, is a very, very complex, multifaceted, philosophical and
Tristan Paylor:religious concept that can't really be separated from you
Tristan Paylor:know, the religions and philosophies it belongs to, like
Tristan Paylor:in in Hinduism, or Jainism, for example. And so, I am certainly,
Tristan Paylor:you know, not being of that religious or philosophical
Tristan Paylor:background myself, I am not really qualified to speak on how
Tristan Paylor:karma plays out in a chart. But I think, you know, if you maybe
Tristan Paylor:looked into some Vedic astrologers, there might be some
Tristan Paylor:very talented folks who can answer that question for you.
Kyle Pierce:Um, you know, in an interpersonal interpersonally,
Kyle Pierce:like a one on one conversation, I'll have all kinds of
Kyle Pierce:conversations about.
Tristan Paylor:Yeah, yeah,
Kyle Pierce:just the idea of karma, what I think about it, or
Kyle Pierce:my constantly changing different philosophically thoughts about
Kyle Pierce:about such things, but in the context of your podcast and
Kyle Pierce:making an authoritative statement? Yeah, I'm not
Kyle Pierce:prepared to make a statement on that. So for that, specifically,
Kyle Pierce:what Tristan said,
Tristan Paylor:do we want to mention a couple things about
Tristan Paylor:remediation? Yeah, that's another method. You know, if, if
Tristan Paylor:you do find that something about a difficult placement in your
Tristan Paylor:chart resonates with your lived experience, you know, to the
Tristan Paylor:extent that like, your own agency is able to change those
Tristan Paylor:circumstances. remediation can be, you know, a sort of like a
Tristan Paylor:magical act, you know, that helps support you in taking
Tristan Paylor:control of the circumstances.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah. I certainly
Tristan Paylor:know, I mean, I guess we should probably define
Tristan Paylor:remediation.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, um, you might have a more exact definition. To
Kyle Pierce:me, remediation is like the, the solutions to the problems that
Kyle Pierce:something in your chart is pointing out or not solutions,
Kyle Pierce:but like the, the ways to remediate or remediate, you
Kyle Pierce:know, to smooth that, that that out?
Tristan Paylor:Yeah, smoothing it out is a good, good way of
Tristan Paylor:describing it. Remediation is, you know, say, a planet in your
Tristan Paylor:chart, you know, symbolizes something difficult for you. And
Tristan Paylor:you know, you have a hard time managing the the topics are the
Tristan Paylor:energy of that planet as it is in your chart. You can do things
Tristan Paylor:that are of the nature of that planet or that honor that planet
Tristan Paylor:in some way. And that is a form of magic, essentially. You know,
Tristan Paylor:and and whatever you believe about magic, you know, there are
Tristan Paylor:different perspectives on it. For me, it's it's more of a
Tristan Paylor:psychological tool. Like I don't think the remediation is going
Tristan Paylor:to fix all my problems, but it is like a support And, you know,
Tristan Paylor:potentially an outlet. So like, if you have problems with Mars
Tristan Paylor:energy in your life, you know, an example that Kyle uses often
Tristan Paylor:is hitting his punching bag. You know, getting getting in a
Tristan Paylor:really heavy workout is an example of a Mars remediation
Tristan Paylor:because it's, it's honoring Mars, and it's giving Mars like
Tristan Paylor:a constructive outlet in your life in some way.
Kyle Pierce:And even just like on a practical level, like, I'm
Kyle Pierce:working on, like a series of articles, flush out my
Kyle Pierce:remediation page on my website, and I like it when it's
Kyle Pierce:practical, I like it when it it's fits into, you know,
Kyle Pierce:established ideas about how people work outside of
Kyle Pierce:astrology, but when you feel if you have a lot of anger and
Kyle Pierce:aggression and stuff, well therapy is good. But you know,
Kyle Pierce:finding a healthy outlet for those feelings is good. It's a
Kyle Pierce:good thing to do. expressing feelings sucks and then they
Kyle Pierce:just, you know, they blow up and then you hurt people you don't
Kyle Pierce:want to hurt people, especially as a cancer rising probably.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, of the punching bag and actually, particularly with Mars
Kyle Pierce:and cancer kept popping into my head is how many UFC fighters
Kyle Pierce:have it and what you were saying earlier about, like, you know,
Kyle Pierce:the Mars wanting to express itself like an appropriately it
Kyle Pierce:makes sense to me that a lot of those UFC fighters like get into
Kyle Pierce:that because it's an appropriate channel for the Mars energy. And
Kyle Pierce:so you know, finding appropriate channels. So, I would say
Kyle Pierce:swimming, physical activity. Water gun fights,
Tristan Paylor:water gun fights are good Mars in Cancer
Tristan Paylor:remediation. I love that
Kyle Pierce:if you start like an adult Water Gun park like
Kyle Pierce:adults can can shoot each other with water guns and throw water
Kyle Pierce:balloons at each other and my God, that's the flag with water
Kyle Pierce:guns. Oh my god, I think that's your that's your destiny.
Tristan Paylor:That's your calling Uranus and Mars rules
Tristan Paylor:the fifth house which is fun and recreation and it's in your
Tristan Paylor:first house in a water sign clearly, Karolina was destined
Tristan Paylor:to open an amusement park where people can shoot each other with
Tristan Paylor:water guns.
Kyle Pierce:I would love that, that would be so amazing. And I
Kyle Pierce:would totally we would promote your waterpark on the show. That
Kyle Pierce:would be fantastic. But or something like that, you know, I
Kyle Pierce:guess that's how I like to approach remediation a lot. But,
Kyle Pierce:you know, finding constructive manifestations of your chat.
Tristan Paylor:I think you found a good Venus retrograde in
Tristan Paylor:Aries remediation earlier, when you know you were talking about
Tristan Paylor:fashion. And you know, potentially a good remediate of
Tristan Paylor:activity for Venus retrograde in Aries is you know, just not even
Tristan Paylor:necessarily, you know, as, as a professional thing, you could
Tristan Paylor:just do it for fun, like designing outfits or, you know,
Tristan Paylor:like Mars and Aries real sharp things, like pull out the sewing
Tristan Paylor:machine, or, you know, out of colors or learn how to tattoo,
Tristan Paylor:you know, stuff, stuff like that. Yeah, loud colors, like
Tristan Paylor:make make a piece of art that's just like really bold and spiky
Tristan Paylor:and full of bright colors and hot things. Yeah. Yeah, like
Tristan Paylor:creative outlets.
Kyle Pierce:Even if you don't like that, like in your space
Kyle Pierce:all the time. Like, create, like, an altar to that like 90s
Kyle Pierce:like, hot pink jumpsuit. With like, spikes for shoulder pads.
Kyle Pierce:Oh, yeah. Yeah.
Tristan Paylor:And there's Sorry, what are you gonna say?
Kyle Pierce:Nothing. I was really grateful that you were
Kyle Pierce:about to talk, you're the impetus was no longer on
Tristan Paylor:your planet planetary donation is another
Tristan Paylor:form of remediation, or you know, if there's a planet that's
Tristan Paylor:being a pain in your ass, you know, figure out who are who are
Tristan Paylor:that planets people and support them in some way. And that's,
Tristan Paylor:you know, a way of sort of creating a sense of friendliness
Tristan Paylor:with what that planet represents. And, you know, maybe
Tristan Paylor:we'll help you work with its energy a bit. So, you know, with
Tristan Paylor:Mars, yeah. Veterans is an obvious one.
Kyle Pierce:Dv domestic violence victims. Yeah. Are from
Kyle Pierce:cancer, be working with them to be donating to shelter?
Tristan Paylor:And that's, I mean, that's where I see you
Tristan Paylor:know, planets and fall in detriment. Or in difficult
Tristan Paylor:aspect working most of the time anyway, like when I think of the
Tristan Paylor:charts of people I know who have those placements, you know,
Tristan Paylor:they're like paramedic acts or psychiatric nurses or therapists
Tristan Paylor:or you know, they volunteer at a shelter or you know, do some
Tristan Paylor:kind of work in their lives related to those difficult
Tristan Paylor:circumstances that those placements represent.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah. And that's just intuitively makes sense.
Kyle Pierce:Because, you know, whether you've experienced that yourself
Kyle Pierce:or not, a lot of the times people who have experienced
Kyle Pierce:something in that realm themselves are the ones that,
Kyle Pierce:you know, want to go help other people who have challenges in
Kyle Pierce:that area. But yeah, I mean, a lot of the time a chart is like,
Kyle Pierce:yeah, you'll see difficult placement, and it's them, you
Kyle Pierce:know, helping other people in those situations or working with
Kyle Pierce:people in those situations.
Tristan Paylor:And even if you know, if that placement doesn't
Tristan Paylor:represent a difficult circumstance that happened to
Tristan Paylor:you specifically, it can represent sort of a higher
Tristan Paylor:tolerance or ability to navigate difficult circumstances
Tristan Paylor:creatively. So like, you know, I know a paramedic who has like a
Tristan Paylor:really gnarly chart, and it's just like, His disposition is
Tristan Paylor:just like really well suited to that line of work. Just the way
Tristan Paylor:he had, like, he just he has he's really good at keeping his
Tristan Paylor:cool and he's, you know, really good at keeping his head in a
Tristan Paylor:crisis. And you know, he can he can stomach the work
Tristan Paylor:essentially. So it's not so much that like, he's injured really
Tristan Paylor:traumatic things in his life, but he helps other people who
Tristan Paylor:are dealing with traumatic events because he's got the
Tristan Paylor:capacity to you know, walk out into those dark scary places and
Tristan Paylor:face them, which I think is a very debilitated planet quality
Tristan Paylor:is being able to go into those scary or difficult places and
Tristan Paylor:not be sort of scared away.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, yeah, exactly.
Tristan Paylor:I think you are slowly dying. I'm hungry. I'm
Tristan Paylor:tired.
Kyle Pierce:I do like to do things for hours and hours and
Kyle Pierce:hours on end, but I like to eat while I'm doing those things or,
Kyle Pierce:you know, not be in a closet that they were shutting curtain
Kyle Pierce:up and soundproofed and sit in a bottle of my own sweat.
Tristan Paylor:That was it hot there.
Kyle Pierce:Top my closet wonders and electronics going on
Kyle Pierce:in here.
Tristan Paylor:Oh, no, this is this is Mars in the eighth
Tristan Paylor:house. You're just like trapped in a hot box.
Kyle Pierce:But I have a mission so you know moving
Kyle Pierce:mission but I guess
Tristan Paylor:Yeah, Mars is Mars is willing to do anything
Tristan Paylor:if there's a mission.
Kyle Pierce:Oh, yeah. Yeah. I was just imagining things I get
Kyle Pierce:tired and think some silly things. But just imagining like,
Kyle Pierce:you know, might be a fun thing to do to just like, I don't
Kyle Pierce:know. Do you ever when you were a kid? Like he didn't play like
Kyle Pierce:war games as much right?
Tristan Paylor:No, I that interest was sort of nipped in
Tristan Paylor:the bud when I was really young. My parents were very against me
Tristan Paylor:playing any kind of violent games or having any toy soldiers
Tristan Paylor:or toy weapons or anything like that. So it just wasn't a big
Tristan Paylor:part of my childhood. Yeah,
Kyle Pierce:I was a big part of my childhood. And I don't know
Kyle Pierce:sometimes I like to do it for myself. Just like once like
Kyle Pierce:child Lee Child, like, childlike way like pretend like whatever I
Kyle Pierce:need to get done is again Nishan like, I don't know, yeah, and
Kyle Pierce:warrior mentality about it. And I don't know. being playful with
Kyle Pierce:your chart, I think can be really helpful. When you're able
Kyle Pierce:to like sort of laugh about it and be playful with it and like,
Kyle Pierce:I don't know, it sort of like loses its its hold over you to
Kyle Pierce:some degree like I don't know, maybe not taking it too
Kyle Pierce:seriously and
Kyle Pierce:have a think for a while I was thinking like how looking at
Kyle Pierce:your placements or whatever, like a shitty placement and I
Kyle Pierce:was like, turned into a self fulfilling prophecy.
Tristan Paylor:The fifth house ruler and the first so yeah,
Tristan Paylor:playfulness is it's part of part of the identity of this whole
Tristan Paylor:chart.
Kyle Pierce:Actors like you see roles coming up in their chart
Kyle Pierce:so often. And I can't help but think that that's like that must
Kyle Pierce:be remediation in some way like you know about them. It's it's
Kyle Pierce:the character they played or
Tristan Paylor:like Alan Rickman, you know, playing Snape
Tristan Paylor:and having moon and Scorpio. So often I see you Yeah, like so
Tristan Paylor:often I see actors with all these debilitated planets, and
Tristan Paylor:it doesn't necessarily show up in their personal professional
Tristan Paylor:lives, but it shows up in the roles they play. And, you know,
Tristan Paylor:maybe there's some potential, you know, remediation, like you
Tristan Paylor:said in there to where, you know, play play the role of Mars
Tristan Paylor:in Cancer, mercury, and Pisces, you know, or the moon being
Tristan Paylor:maltreated, or whatever, you know, play that role, you know,
Tristan Paylor:as an acting project or something, or, you know, write
Tristan Paylor:that character into a piece of writing that you're working on?
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, give it a separate body. Yeah, sort of,
Kyle Pierce:like an offering.
Tristan Paylor:Yeah, and offering Exactly. Oh, I, I'm
Tristan Paylor:really glad you mentioned the self fulfilling prophecy thing,
Tristan Paylor:because I think people underestimate how powerful that
Tristan Paylor:is. It's extremely powerful. And it has like, extremely
Tristan Paylor:noticeable societal effects as well, like our judgments of
Tristan Paylor:other people, our pre judgments of other people, or certain
Tristan Paylor:groups of people, you know, predicted their success to some
Tristan Paylor:extent, if we're in positions of authority, right. So certainly,
Tristan Paylor:in our own lives, as well, you know, what we expect for
Tristan Paylor:ourselves often comes true, and, you know, that's something that
Tristan Paylor:I think we need to be careful about with astrology, where it's
Tristan Paylor:really easy for us, you know, if we're in an anxious place, maybe
Tristan Paylor:to look at our chart or transit coming up and be like, well,
Tristan Paylor:that confirms the, you know, most catastrophic situation I
Tristan Paylor:could imagine in my anxious brain on. And then, you know,
Tristan Paylor:you end up creating a circumstances that, you know,
Tristan Paylor:you you didn't want, it's, it's not, it's not fate, you know,
Tristan Paylor:it's our, we actually, you know, have some power over our lives
Tristan Paylor:and our expectations, they have a lot of power.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah, don't give, don't give your power away to
Kyle Pierce:astrology, or to the parents. Yeah, don't like, let it remove,
Kyle Pierce:let it divorce you from the agency that you do have. None of
Kyle Pierce:us are masters of the universe. But, you know, we can choose
Kyle Pierce:different things changing can take time, and it's hard, but it
Kyle Pierce:is possible to do.
Tristan Paylor:And I think it's, I mean, maybe the key, you
Tristan Paylor:know, there's kind of a balancing act with astrology
Tristan Paylor:where, you know, on one hand, we don't want to take it too
Tristan Paylor:seriously. And we want to be careful when we're talking about
Tristan Paylor:when we're using astrology, to talk about negative stuff, we
Tristan Paylor:want to be careful because we don't want you know, people to
Tristan Paylor:take it too seriously. And then start, you know, become afraid
Tristan Paylor:because of a birth chart, which you know, is that's not, that's
Tristan Paylor:not a great situation. But at the same time, astrology in
Tristan Paylor:order to speak meaningfully about life needs to have symbols
Tristan Paylor:available to it to talk about the most difficult aspects of
Tristan Paylor:life. So it's, you know, striking that balance, right? Or
Tristan Paylor:it's like, we don't want to be dismissive of what might be
Tristan Paylor:genuinely difficult things in somebody's life that they have
Tristan Paylor:been able to use astrology to find meaning for. But also, you
Tristan Paylor:know, being really careful not to inspire fear. Yeah. It's like
Tristan Paylor:finding that balance, where like, you know, astrology
Tristan Paylor:doesn't dictate your life, it should not inspire fear. But at
Tristan Paylor:the same time, it does need to have some scary language in it,
Tristan Paylor:if you want to use it to talk about things that are difficult
Tristan Paylor:in your life that aren't, you know, necessarily like trying to
Tristan Paylor:predict whether or not bad things will happen. But you
Tristan Paylor:know, making meaning out of maybe difficult circumstances
Tristan Paylor:you're already going through or have already been through, like,
Tristan Paylor:I find it's more useful to look at the present or look, in
Tristan Paylor:hindsight, you know, what that kind of symbolism instead of
Tristan Paylor:looking ahead and predicting doom for yourself?
Kyle Pierce:Yeah. I just want to say like, look at how it
Kyle Pierce:actually resonates with your life. Yeah. Yeah, I guess like
Kyle Pierce:don't project you know, things that aren't, that don't resonate
Kyle Pierce:with your life onto it. And through that, you can, you know,
Kyle Pierce:make really good assessments of your life and like, you know,
Kyle Pierce:see some things you need to patch up if you can see some
Kyle Pierce:things that tend to go more smoothly for you and work it.
Tristan Paylor:Yeah. Like ultimately you You are the
Tristan Paylor:authority on your own life, not your birth chart.
Kyle Pierce:Yeah. Well, that's a good place to wrap it up for
Kyle Pierce:today.
Tristan Paylor:I think so. Well,
Kyle Pierce:thank you so much, Jett. And Karolina for your
Kyle Pierce:awesome questions. And yeah, like to encourage anyone else
Kyle Pierce:does Questions, please. You know, send us a send us your
Kyle Pierce:questions at astrology hotline pod@gmail.com We would love to
Kyle Pierce:hear them and we'd love to hear back from jet and Catalina as
Kyle Pierce:well.
Tristan Paylor:Yeah, that would be awesome. Thank you both so
Tristan Paylor:much for these questions. You know, obviously we got a ton of
Tristan Paylor:discussion material out of them. They were excellent questions.
Tristan Paylor:really, really interesting and important topics. So and also
Tristan Paylor:just super interesting that your charts are so similar. So
Tristan Paylor:thematically, you know, things are all like tied together
Tristan Paylor:really nicely between these two charts.
Kyle Pierce:That's where mystical Kyle shows up. And it
Kyle Pierce:was like, that wasn't an accident. I don't know.
Tristan Paylor:Oh, Sam, that's where my, my, my mystical side
Tristan Paylor:is loves this. It's just like, yes, this was meant to be.
Kyle Pierce:You know, it's funny when I first had the idea
Kyle Pierce:for this show. I was imagining, like, love line style with like,
Kyle Pierce:you know, questions and like, 10 minute answers, you know?
Unknown:Yeah, so it's just get longer
Kyle Pierce:and longer. So I kind of like that, too. I don't
Kyle Pierce:know. Maybe we'll do a special episode one day,
Tristan Paylor:like to answer 10 questions,
Kyle Pierce:to answer them as fast as possible in a short,
Kyle Pierce:succinct way,
Tristan Paylor:that will be a huge challenge for me.
Kyle Pierce:I agree. I like this format. It's fine. It's
Kyle Pierce:just funny how it actually makes a lot more sense. But But yeah,
Kyle Pierce:what do you got going on these days? Tristan,
Tristan Paylor:I have got the usual things going on. My prices
Tristan Paylor:have gone up a little bit for birth chart consultations. So it
Tristan Paylor:is $60 for 60 minutes over zoom. And I can, you know, answer your
Tristan Paylor:questions about your birth chart or just give you a general natal
Tristan Paylor:chart reading. And if you know if you like it, you're welcome
Tristan Paylor:to follow up and I can look into transits and perfections and
Tristan Paylor:more time based things as well. And you can book a reading with
Tristan Paylor:me through my website, which is bad sign astrology.ca. And you
Tristan Paylor:can also find me on social media. I'm on Instagram at bad
Tristan Paylor:sign astrology. And I have a blog where I've been posting my
Tristan Paylor:astrology writing, which you'll find on my website, but also on
Tristan Paylor:Tumblr at bad sign astrology. And what about you Kyle can
Tristan Paylor:consistent branding
Kyle Pierce:you know, the huge, you can book a consultation with
Kyle Pierce:me at my website. Remember the name of my own website,
Kyle Pierce:apparently? Kyle Pierce astrology.com You have like five
Kyle Pierce:different irons in the fire. I don't wanna talk about anything
Kyle Pierce:till one is actually
Tristan Paylor:would you say that your your fixed t square
Tristan Paylor:is? is causing you to put too many irons in the fire? Yeah,
Tristan Paylor:yes.
Kyle Pierce:In the sheer lack of mutability in my chart. It's
Kyle Pierce:like, I was like the chess analogy. Just like cardinals,
Kyle Pierce:like your opening move. Fixed is like your mid game and usable is
Kyle Pierce:your end game. And actually with chest sight, my end game is
Kyle Pierce:awful. I Yeah, it's really hard for me to like wrap things up.
Kyle Pierce:But yet, I still want to do you know, like six different things
Kyle Pierce:at a time. So
Tristan Paylor:this is why we can't wrap up a show or
Tristan Paylor:conversations because neither of us have enough mutable in our
Tristan Paylor:charts. It's just all cardio you only have Yeah, yeah, I have the
Tristan Paylor:same situation. And we've only have a mutable planet. trying
Tristan Paylor:desperately to wrap everything up.
Kyle Pierce:Yep. So you know, if I ever finish any of those
Kyle Pierce:things, I'll let y'all know. But other than that,
Tristan Paylor:all yet. Well, bye for now. Thanks for
Tristan Paylor:listening.
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